Why is romance at an all time low? Simple, no one is trying?

[blackeagle007]

Men and Women are guilty of this. No one makes a damn effort. Everyone sits back, no trust with one another. Each blames the other. It’s all our fault because we let social media run our lives. Notice s we hen social media wasn’t around, things were better! Now we are in a war of the Sex’s.

Just sitting back only misses out on meeting someone meaningful. How long are we going to keep this up? What will it take for us to be happy with everyone else? I feel we need to put the phones away, stop obsessing with Facebook, instagram etc. Just give yourself a chance. What are we waiting on? 🤔

[Anonymous]

Because "what's in it for me"?

That's everyone's attitude. As a guy most the women's attitude today is a man's place is to cater to her ego. A guy is expected to simp after her, love bomb her and then she'll choose which guy she likes the best. The problem with this way of thinking is the biggest simps actually have no real connection to her. They're just telling her what she wants to hear because they know she's mostly motivated by her own ego. As a result she chooses between options of men that are actually "bad" and "worse". But she does not have the wherewithal to understand this. The end result is those men feed her ego until those men get what they want. Then they drop her flat on her ass. And she goes from having what SHE thought was a guy that really cared about her. When she actually never had any understanding of what a loving healthy relationship is. So she never chose, never chooses a a loving healthy partner. She wash, rinse, repeats this pattern over and over again till she either (erroneously) blames and hates all men. Or till she's just to bitter to continue.

Welcome to the modern world of dating. Enjoy your stay.👍😆

[slatyb]

Because housing is so expensive. People in their twenties can't afford a place of their own, so there is no where to take their dates.

[slatyb]

"nowhere"

[cindy5]

I think it's the same all the time.