Guys, have most girls you encountered initiated plans to hang out?

[Anonymous]

[SotiCoto]

Nope. I had to do 90% of the work, which kinda made me feel like they didn't care.

[Asker]

Would you say it's common for girls not to make plans?

[SotiCoto]

It is common for girls to flake out and quit plans. Whether they do that with their own or not, I'm not sure.

[Anonymous]

Never. However, I'm pretty sure I come off as intimidating, but I'm very introverted and shy when I like a girl.

[Ask105]

They have but then they don’t actually put effort in to anything for me just kind of words 😞

[BarryLiverstone]

Usually.. one we get to know each other. For some reason at first it seems like they wait for me?

[Asker]

At first they wait for you to make plans?

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes. When she’s been a stranger and before we have met a few times. I feel like she’s waited for me to make plans

[Asker]

How old is she? Is that the norm and what most girls do?

[BarryLiverstone]

They have been my age or maybe a few years younger. Why do you ask?

[HeartShapedHaze]

Nope always been me

[Asker]

Why is that the case?

[HeartShapedHaze]

I don't know, I wish they wanted to initiate more lol

[jahaims]

That's how my wife got me

[In_Trance]

Yes they have

[Asker]

If the guy is shy, quiet and hard to read will most girls still initiate plans?

[In_Trance]

That depends on the girl

[Anonymous]

Yes.