Guys, do you hang out with other girls one on one?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. We are adults.. I trust him but I don't like when he hangs out with his girl friends one on one. I just don't get it. I have great guy friends but I don't go out for lunch with this or do activities together. I have no desire to. Group hang outs are suffient for me. This does create a lot of strain in our relationship. I know the friendships are completely platonic and I do like his girl friends. Im not threatened by them and I can't figure out why it bothers me so much. I also don't see other guys hanging out one on one with their girl friends... HELP. I'd love some perspective on this because Im struggling with it.

[JustGrand]

I wouldn't hang out exclusively with another girl if I was in a relationship knowing my girl didn't like it. I wouldn't want my girl hangout exclusively with other men either. It's not that I wouldn't trust her. I don't trust other men. When I brought it up with my ex and wanted her not to have any guy friends, she required that I have no girl friends so it's fair. We both agreed. And that was that.

[Anonymous]

Yes I do. They’re my friends I’m not going to get rid of them because I’m w someone, especially if nothing is going on. I’ll introduce her to them most likley.