Is it worth it to you personally?

[lorenzomichael]

So my question is when you have someone new in your life (3 months) and they have a really hot body and a cute / beautiful face and you two have good communication. But are they worth keeping around if there is something that they love to do that you just can’t stand? And that they say they will never change and don’t have a problem if it bothers you, despite it drives you crazy.
But it isn’t drugs or alcohol or having another woman or man or some addiction that you hate so much.. would you continue to have them in your life as a potential partner/ friend? Please let me know your answer yes or no… or even if there is something that will keep you from a person like that. What would it be?

Updates

9 mo

It probably is nothing at all to some. But to me it’s her music she changes my radio in my cars when she’s riding in them she cranks it up loud and she won’t change it or lower it or turn that shit off if I’m in her ride and to top it all off is Spanish music to me it sounds like polka music. Have you guys ever heard this shit. It doesn’t matter now because I told her goodbye this weekend.

[Crimsyjo]

When you love someone you tolerate things you won't or can't tolerate if not in love.

So this thing - it depends on the what it is really to how intolerable it is. And that in itself varies from person to person. Like imagine someone has a habit of picking scabs? Or enjoying scrolling and talking to guys (and girls but mostly guys) online but say like on here so pretty harmless? Or spending hours getting ready? These things may bother some people more than others so let's presume it's a biggie for you (or me in your shoes)... I would say it's only been 3 months so give it time. It can take longer to fall in love and bond more securely with a person abd if that starts happening then the "thing" may become less of an issue. But if you don't feel better with time and intact it annoys you more then it's probably a sign this relationship isn't right and should end.

[Crimsyjo]

Following your update: I get it. Music has caused issues for me to. Even when nit meaning to, but certain musuc gets me buzzed and if my friend or partner likes different music it can bring my mood down. I think in this case (for others if you defo ended your relationship) is to find mysuc you both like and then take turns having music you specifically like that the other person's doesn't. If you don't match on musuc and music is important (it is to me) then it is better to end. As for car noise levels? Again ... both people need to be open to compromise (some loud sometimes, not all time) cos otherwise that's not a good sign of a good person if they don't consider your needs or moods ever and know it's causing issues.

[Rides_Big_Guys]

Obviously looks are more important to you. You’re shallow

[lorenzomichael]

Yes I am shallow and I don’t apologize for it. But I always get what I want you women should understand that.

[Anonymous]

I me a you said something I can't stand, so that already sounds like rather a deal breaker. What are we talking here? They don't wash their hands after using the toilet? I can't stand that, and it's a deal breaker. They eat with their mouth open? Oof... that's a tough one. They better be an outstanding partner because that's such a massive turn-off, I'm not sure I'd have gotten attracted in the first place. They just... love camping, and I don't like camping, so they go camping without me and don't expect me to go with them? That's fine. I don't care.

There's a lot of things they might love to do that I might not be able to stand. Without more specifics, it's hard for me to know what I'd actually do in that scenario.

[WhitneySnow]

Depends what the thing is