Are you worth it?

Men and women both want a mate worthy of what they think of themselves.

In the Bible it tells husbands to die for their wives and the wives to submit to their husbands.

Men, are you a husband or will you be a husband worth submitting to?

Ladies, are you a wife or will you be a wife worth dying for?

And why or why not?
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11 mo
I think the word submit might be being taken out of context. I apologize. "Submit" in a biblical context includes the idea of respect, but it also conveys humility, trust, and a voluntary yielding to roles or relationships. It's not about domination, but about honoring others.
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11 mo
Trusting your husband to make a good decision after you've discussed it with one another. More or less I was asking if you felt you were worth each gender's role and if not, why? As an example I am 119 days sober. I am slowly returning myself to health and trying to rebuild my reputation and respect. I do not think I am worthy at this time but I am aspiring to be
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