For average and less weight women, would you date an overweight man?

[Spaceman3487]

I am 6’1 265. I have brown hair and blue eyes. That’s right around 240 for a 5’9 man. The average height of a US man. I am not like a round ball. Just a little bit of a gut. But I am a friendly man. I noticed that when I got down to about 195 218 for a few years. That I could just go to a bar and come home with a girl. My recommended weight is 188-208. So… But… I am just wondering. In my weight now. 265. Is there any way that a girl that was average to skinny weight would go out with me. Please comment down below if you believe that you would go out with a man like that and you are “thin”.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Just curious as to why you would only be asking this of "thin" girls. Are you just assuming bigger girls would automatically say yes or is it because you only want to date thinner girls. If it's the second then why would they want to if you aren't taking care of yourself? If the first, then that's kind of elitist don't you think?

[Spaceman3487]

It’s just a fact. I have been skinny and overweight. Skinny I got skinny girls.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

So now that you are heavier, you still want girls who take care of themselves when you don't take care of yourself?

[Abbycado]

Personally, no. I like someone that takes care of their health. You don't seem to by what you write. Now, if you were closer to my age and added something saying you are working to reduce your weight and get healthier, I might consider.

You seem content with being overweight. I don't like that attitude, honestly.

[capriVib]

When it comes to dating, the overweight, slightly pot-bellied man is considered desirable. I wish I could be fat too 😢

[Ask105]

Sounds like you just need to keep working out And your good

[Rides_Big_Guys]

I’ve been thin and I got any guy. I’ve been fat and no guy. It’s taught me guys are shallow.
I’m losing the weight and noticing the guys coming back - which I will surely be not choosing those types of men

[itsannalee]

Depends on the what he offers or brings to the table.

[Anonymous]

At your age, the decent ones do. All women add a little girth after 40. If she doesn't she likely did YOU the favor my man.👍

[DishLady]

Personally no.