Guys have you ever rejected a pretty girl- what was the context and reason if yes?

[Anonymous]

[OneViewpoint]

Sure, I do it all the time...

• She's married, LOL. Not always a deal killer though.
• She's high maintenance / entitled and I don't have the patience.
• She's dumb as a bag of rocks and I can't fake being interested in that.
• I'm just not in the mood / not looking for a girlfriend or relationship.
• I don't have the time to deal with someone new in my life.
• She just broke up with my friend and is hitting on me 2 weeks later.
• She's needy / coming off a breakup and I'm not getting in the middle of that.
• She's carrying around baggage from 20 years of failed relationships.
• I'm tired and just want to relax, not entertain someone.
• She's a shit show of debt with no career and she drinks too much.
• She's a single mom.

[Asker]

I find it hard to believe men actually reject pretty women, don't you feel like its a loss if you let her go?

[OneViewpoint]

No. I really don’t need everyone to like me. And I really am very selective about who I allow to be around me. I’ve learned over time that a lot of people just waste my time and energy. So I control the people who have access to me pretty rigorously.

And believe it. I’m not gonna compromise my life for a pretty face and a hot body. There are plenty of hot women. It’s just not worth it. To me.

[HighValue]

Yes, plenty of times.

Reasons range from finding out she had tattoos under her sleeve, a past of promiscuity, found out she had kids from her past, she used to use drugs, they don't agree with prenuptial agreements, she was already married, found out she voted for liberals (Obama at the time), or just didn't have anything in common. Those are the reasons I have rejected attractive women in the past. (Though once I found out one had a tattoo sleeve, I lost attraction.

[Asker]

You rejected a pretty girl because she voted for Obama?

[HighValue]

It revealed a significant difference in morals. Moral compatibility is very important for long term relationship success.

[ohsheeT]

Yes it was because she thought she was better than every other girl on the planet. Very beautiful but once she opened her mouth for me it was over. Nothing but drama and insult towards women in men

[Anonymous]

Many.

Most women play games. As a guy you learn this. If a woman does not demonstrate clear interest she gets rejected. How attractive she is is irrelevant if you're just her newest game.

[Asker]

What do you mean newest game I’m not sure so asking

[Asker]

Thank you for your reply

[Opinion Owner]

Women do not reinvent the wheel ( I'm sure guys don't either). The more women a guy sees the more his understands her gender's tactics. So after a while a guy knows just by looking at the cover of the book what he's dealing with. And there are a lot of women out there that every guy is just a game to be played to her. These women like to think they got every guy on a string. But to the initiated guy he's sees her coming a mile away.
Understand?
This is why I tell women on here once the reach there 30's a guy has seen just about every tactic that 8s in a woman's bag. Those game simply will not work anymore. You either gotta be real or you gotta find a more (probably younger) naive target.

[exitseven]

Yes, she was the best friend of a girl I dated. She dumped me in a very cruel way and I was really hurt by this.

Her friend really liked her and I liked her as well. Still, when we encountered each other I did not want to go out with her because I was still angry at her friiend and took it out on her.

[ProbablyClueless]

Several times. I rejected them because they were drunk and having sex with a drunk chick seemed like a horrible idea. I've rejected friendship offers because I didn't like who the women were as people.

I've even rejected dates from attractive women because of their personalities.

[Orion84]

Sure, I have.

The circumstances vary, but generally it's because I was already in a relationship at the time, or if I was single, then I just wasn't interested in her.

[Clear_Skies10]

I broke up with 2 pretty women after long relationships, but the circumstances were extreme, and definitely warranted it.

[Levin]

I have yes. Lots in fact.

The reason? I'm odd. That's the best way I can explain it, ha.

[Berethor]

Kinda, not super pretty and not very direct rejection, the reason is that she not a virgin.

[Ironic_Method]

Yes, a few times.

If I can't trust her, differing life goals, smoking, etc.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes. She told me that she was in a relationship at the time.

[BarryLiverstone]

Another time I was warned by a coworker that she’s not a serious relationship person.

[Anonymous]

Accidentally, yes.

[zagor]

Yes; I was very shy at the time.