Cheaters, would you leave your partner if you found out they were cheating on you too?

[Anonymous]

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yes. this question is ONLY for cheaters.

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honestly, I'd love to cheat if given the permission to.

[ohsheeT]

Well or course ir you were given permission to do so, you would just because of the experience. Of someone new touching you a new sensual l experience in every way from keeping it a secret.
From other people even though you have permission. The feeling. The excitement.
Of just being pushed up against the wall.
Being kissed on your lips, do you Nick him picking you up from up underneath the back of your knees and then holding you against the wall with only his hips. Or getting you in bed with every touch new to you with foreplay seduction every single touch, slow andcentual rolling you over on top of him and grab in your hips sliding you forward. Pushing you back in slow motion sliding you forward question your back even slower motion. But no penetration until until you're ready to explode

Of course you want permission

But it doesn't happen that way. And if I wasn't happy in my relationship, I wouldn't cheat. I would you say goodbye

There's no reason to hurt somebody twice

And I'm sure there are those people out there that do have permission because their partner loves them enough and for whatever reasons wants to be with them and they say go for it. That's kind of cool that people are that mature to do that

[Asker]

Staying monogamous reminds me of what Im missing out on. Sure, honey moon stage I never feel the urge to cheat. But as years ago by, I see my partner's shortcomings and I feel the need to want to fulfill them with someone else. There are plenty of hotter men too.

[ohsheeT]

I hear you life is just to short let me take it a little deeper. Im not saying this is true. It's my belief. As I have grown and wanting to know more of who we are why we are here... ok wait before I tell you what I was goingbto tell let me ask you one thing... be honest please.

I hear what your saying I understand it I've been there...

But do you feel that every thing you just said. Is it deeper than that. Could you also look at it as if something spiritual, it's something calling you because we all need to experience this. I'm curious about that and I can explain why? But yeah, what do you think about that?

[Asker]

@ohsheet

I'm not someone who is easy to please. If you're someone who is easy to please, of course you won't mind your partner's shortcomings. Everyone is different.

[ohsheeT]

You made me smile. I know how to please. But the only way I can be pleased. Is by being able to read the person's eyes them with the color of her cheeks. The way she breathes the way she moans the way she moves. Because she's talking to me without using your mouth. In all those she's telling me everything she wants me to do in that moment now it's my choice if I want to relax if I want to do it halfway or not or if I wanted to just take a rifle to that peak and then slow down. Or just give it full throttle and pound.

Or the way I want to use my lips in my body. The way I want to slide my body to touch her body the way I want to roll her over on top of me in slow motion, forward and back forward and back just teasing or the moment I rolled her. And it's no slow motion. I stuff it in and I start to become one with her every move... this is the one thing I do know how to do.
And that is read somebody.. To become one with their every movement or against their movement. Depends on the moment abd how intense it might be right then and there. ... Every moment is different. And you're 100% right? Everyone is different.
And when you understand what makes you love is all about. You want to make sure that you go to the peak every time and you want to give her that out of body experience every time

[ohsheeT]

If you understand that we are made of energy, I went 2 energies become one. It's the most beautiful feeling you're ever gonna fail in your life

, people you are selfish. And just wanna get off. I say what ever...

The people that understand energy and how to connect it, I mean with every little touch, just the way you drag your lips across the other person, I mean everything it becomes intense and deep. And when you want to please that person. That's where it starts.

[Asker]

It goes beyond just sex. There is the looks aspect. There is the masculinity aspect. There is the caring aspect. I like it when a man is obsessed with me. When the kids arrive, I like a man who does child care. Most men dont do their fair share of child care.

You can do all the child care, be the best husband. But if there is someone hotter than you, Id still be tempted to cheat. If he is a great husband, I might cheat once then feel super guilty about it and never do it again.

If he is crappy husband, I might continue to get addicted to the hot guy

[ohsheeT]

When you have children, you have to put all your time and energy into them, and they should become 10 times better than you are.

You're right. it's not just all about sex. I think.
You're a kind, loving person. You're probably a really good wife.
But you're missing something. I think that spark that fire that makes you feel alive is missing.

When I was in a relationship.
I had a couple of opportunities to cheat, but I didn't do it. I wanted to for many reasons. I was very unhappy. I tried to make it work, but it didn't, and I ended up getting the divorce. When to total hell for a while, but. I knew it was going to happen. As for you. I feel you right now that's why I said that spark you need to be lit up... and I think it would be pretty easy to take you there.
Nonstop nonstop

[ohsheeT]

Let me ask you, can you feel energy?

[ohsheeT]

We're having sex making love. You can do it physically

Understand energy when you understand energy and you know how to touch very slow and sensual with it it will.
Flow throughout your whole body with every touch with every look. I look with everything you do and it sullivan so beautiful

That's when marathon comes in.
It doesn't matter what you're doing that moment.
It will make you so high and crazy. All in a good way I don't care where you're at. What you doing, you will feel like you never felt it before. Even physical doesn't even compare to energy sex.

[Asker]

Im wise enough to understand the grass isn't always greener on the other side. If the marriage isn't terrible, at least I would have a good husband who cares for me, by my side. If I divorced him, simply due to lack of spark. Who is going to be there for me? Am I gonna go through all of lifes terrible struggles alone? Would I no longer have a best friend who I can vent to after a terrible day at work? Someone who I know can help me keep a roof over my head even if I get fired from my job? Someone who I can count on to care for me if I ever get sick? How about being my emotional support when I need him the most?

Or when would I meet someone better than him? If I would ever meet anyone "better" than him?

Dont always think the next person will always be better than the last. They might even be worse or you would find yourself all alone lonely and neglected for the rest of your life

Every marriage loses spark eventually as the decades pass by. Things get dull, you both get too used to each other.

But my husband is family and he is home. I can trust that he would be there. I can use all the flings and side pieces and hot sex to keep my spark in life. But i can't count on any of these hot guys to be there for me when I need it the most

If something is working ok, keep it.

[ohsheeT]

You are 100 % right and the grass is never greener. Because you have to take care of it the same way.
The other one was i think if there was anything good about having an affair or trying somebody new?
You probably both would have to agree on it. But I doubt that would have even happened.
Or would be agreed upon? I think the best thing about thinking about something like this. Is just the excitement of it and the thought of what could happen. And I mean you can turn somebody on to without even really doing anything well, penetration, anyway.\nI mean there's ways to do all kinds of things but being excited l o l are getting somebody else excited I guess

[ohsheeT]

Have you ever role play

[ohsheeT]

You know what I think.
That is cool about your question is that you're one hundred percent honest but let me ask you if you had permission to cheat would you do it

[Asker]

It has to do with fulfilling areas that my spouse just cannot fulfill.

[ohsheeT]

Yes i understand that

[ohsheeT]

. can you or would you Dm mes

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't cheat. If my partner did, I would leave her. I once tried to tempt a girl with "infidelity", but it was only because of her extreme behavior, my ignorance to her situation, and my other worldly desire for her. I was extremely ignorant on the situation, but my actions were still wrong.

[hellopeoplee]

No I would try to work it out everyone makes mistakes there not proud of

[hellopeoplee]

Talk about a open relationship

[Asker]

@hellopeoplee

I prefer not an open relationship. But cheating is extremely tempting.

[hellopeoplee]

I’ve cheated before i regretted it we stayed together an i told him he forgave me. But are you unsatisfied? At the time i was really depressed and didn’t know what i wanted it made me feel in “control “

[Asker]

@hellopeoplee

Staying monogamous reminds me of what Im missing out on. Sure, honey moon stage I never feel the urge to cheat. But as years ago by, I see my partner's shortcomings and I feel the need to want to fulfill them with someone else. There are plenty of hotter men too.

[Oldschool1981]

I was once in a LTR and she left me for her side guy but we didn't fully break up; we were still getting together once in a while for sex. Anyway, after a couple of years, she left him and came back to me but continued to see him once in a while. LOL

[Anonymous]

Nope. It's only sex.

[Asker]

you don't know that.

[BarryLiverstone]

Aggressive question. Only cheaters can answer?

[jahaims]

It's not cheating with permission lol