No.. Because getting caught/not getting caught should have nothing to do with why a person would decide to cheat/not cheat. And anyone who that's only thing they think about in that situation shows they only think of themselves. Not the hurt they cause, the trust they break, the love someone has for them. I would never do that to someone. If I'm not happy in a relationship, I'm going to either try to work it out or end it. Even if I don't love someone, I'm not going to ever be that disrespectful/heartless as to cause someone else pain. Anyone who answered yes, maybe isn't ready to be in a relationship.
No. Usually cheaters come to the end of the road at some point or another. Knowing that half of my life would be a lie because I'm all the time trying to cover everything up isn't something I want to do. Things are a lot more easier and honest with all cards on the table, face up. You might think that what you're doing is bulletproof until one of his friends catches you out with someone else.. This is usually how it happens too. If you are doing this, (I don't know if you are or not) you better stop now. It will not end well for you if you continue down this path.
Just to clarify: I have never cheated, but what I meant by "I've never been one to only feel bad when caught" was directed towards immoral things in general. In other words, I would still feel bad just knowing I did something wrong that I fully knew better than to do.
Nope as even if nobody did find me out my guilt would probably make me confess or tear me up if I didn't say anything which is the biggest problem with cheating is that unless you are numb to guilt which is worse in my opinion then the guilt will act as your judge and jury in the sense that guilt normally catches up to most people I think. Also like I said even if your so desensitised from guilt then I find that something bad normally happens in your life to make the scar of cheating actually hurt. So personally no I wouldn't.
no. not for their sake but for mine i definitely wouldn't. i have done it already and never felt so shitty in my life, he never found out but i half confessed and broke up over it but he wanted to get back together 🤔
Then almost happened again with a new boyfriend i literally had another guy touching me and kissing my neck but I gave nothing back and told him to stop, i know for sure new boyfriend would also never have found out if i had done something but I felt shitty for this too even though i told other guy to stop and nothing more happened.
Hell no I believe in karmas. I learn it older. By my parents my dad was unfaithful and now he is paying his karmas but really bad. The f-up part it drags the rest of your family members to the point their is hate, anger and arguments. Is a living hell.
I asked myself is it worth to cheat and experience what my dad and mom are going through?
Also, you may know and be aware of karmas but does your partner also believes and will stay faithful? The fact is you stay faithful this life but were you in your previous life? Debts from previous life start to show in this life.
If you feel the need or want to cheat there’s something massively wrong with your relationship. I remember at the end of my last relationship. The guy was taking me for granted at the end so I went on two dates whilst we were technically still in a relationship. Neither of them made me feel any better. In fact, I just felt worse. I would never do it again. If I’m not happy, I’m not cheating. I’m moving on.
Nope never, if she doesn't knows, I KNOW, how can sleep at night knowing that the girl who gave herself and her life to me is being cheated on by me...
Also god knows too which means it's a sin!
By the way, why would i cheat? If i'm married, it means i have a wife and i can have sex anytime with her and will enjoy it to the max...
I always questioned about why people cheats? All the diseases, danger, also there is no love, she's just a stranger... etc
No. Morals and values are what you do when you will never get caught, that is the real you that is your true belief structure. I would not and could not do that because I wouldn't be able to live with myself. She may not know but I would and I would relive my weakness and my betrayel every time I saw her and I could not live with that.
Cheated, been cheated on. I would only in few situstions. most realistic case I can't think of is drop in sex for girls emotional state or her ever trying to barter sex in any way. after though, id leave her for these same reasons anyways so this response assumes opportunity arises with pretty specific timing
In my opinion, it shouldn't be about getting caught, it should be about doing the right thing. So no. I mean, I've never had and never will have a relationship, but here's some advice for those who do. This shit usually comes to light, and even if it doesn't, you'll know and you have to live with that. Some of you just don't care though, and for men who are not capable of caring how their actions affect others, congratulations, because women love you fuckers.
@Josephx760 For the same reason women flock to men with any dark personality trait, and why women are more likely to develop Stockholm Syndrome. It's actually an evolutionary defense mechanism. Women try to align themselves with the bad men, so when those men inevitably start being problematic, the women are spared the worst of it since they are those men's "allies".
However, this same proclivity often drives women to try to align themselves with the worst of the worst, which will allow the women to breed in most cases still, thus passing on their evil-seeking genes, but these men will also beat, subjugate and lie to the women.
No. I don't do think based on if my partner would find out, I do things based on how she'd feel about it if she did know about it. And that's not a "I'm doing it to save my own ass if she does find out," it's a "I genuinely don't want to do things she doesn't like even if she doesn't know because I love her and it would make me feel bad."
Cheating should never be a resort, if you can't stay faithful to someone in a monogamous relationship just don't get into one at all to save them from inevitable heartbreak, and you from inevitable (and much deserved) embarrassment
Never. I would know. I met my ex wife about 35 days before going into the military. I could have had a ton of sex in tech school and she never would have known. But I didn't because I am not a piece of shit.
That defeats the purpose of being committed. If you have the desire to cheat but don’t purely because you think there’s a chance you’ll get caught, you’re
A.) With the wrong person B.) Have the wrong priories.
No because i love him so much and id never forgive myself. I've been cheated on myself before and i know how horrible it is to give all your love to someone for them to believe it isn't good enough for them not to keep it in their pants.
No. I hold myself to extremely high standards and place a high value on honor and loyalty. If I'm with someone, it's cause I find them attractive and my romantic mindset makes everybody else seem unattractive. So I'm never going to cheat.
Probably not, but if it depends on the partner. Like if we were an arranged marriage or only married for some financial convenience and the sex was unsatisfying, maybe. Otherwise I'm too old to think of such things in terms of "accomplishments."
No. I'm not so controlled by sex that I'm going to sneak off and fuck another random woman like a horny teenager. Right now I'm single by choice so if I did happen to get into another relationship it would be with someone amazing that is NOT someone I'm going to cheat on.
no. why would I? I respect other human beings and realize they have feelings. if I feel the need to cheat, I'd do the guy a favour and break up with him first.
I always think about the end result when it comes to relationships.. it seems like everything is going well but there comes a day you want to get out of it and you can't tolerate that emotional stress.. relationships are very sensitive. Should be handled with care.
No. If I ever had the feeling or want to cheat on my partner, I would break up with them. Why would you cheat on the person you love, even if they will never find out?
If I'd be in love with them then no. Maybe if the relationship would be really bad but I prefer to break up first and then move on to someone else. lol
@WowwGirl cheating in whatever form is unacceptable. Even if I won't be found out, I will have to live with that guilt while also seeing my partner. This can cause big deals and a break in communication hence the mortality of the relationship.
No, I believe if you are going to cheat you should let your partner know that you don't have the same feelings you use to have then break it off. There's no reason to lie.
deceiving and cheating in worst thing in this world. I would prefer to say that Cheater is always cheater. No one has right to cheat and make foolish to other.
Nope. It would tear me up inside. I'm a strong believer in trust and if that trust isn't there, then drop the partner you're with and hope to high heavens the sex with the new person is worth the break up.
No because 1) it isn't my style and B) I would still feel guilty and C) most importantly it would be wrong no matter if he/she/them catches you, so I wouldn't cheat even if I knew they wouldn't catch me.
Throughout my life I have not ever cheated on any Girl I was ever with. It is such a violation of Trust and a boundary that I Individually will not ever cross. EVER
No, it is pointless. If I cheated it would mean that I would no longer want my partner. If I no longer wanted my partner, I wouldn't torture myself or them by being with them
Never, I'm a flawed person but I never cheat on my friends and I never cheat on my partners. You can rip other parts of my character apart and maybe have a point but you'll never find an example of where I've cheatead/let a friend down.
No, I wouldn't be able to live with myself, I would be constantly racked with guilt, although I'd be the same if I cheated and was honest about it because I'm an overthinker.
No, coz if i was that tempted to cheat, it just means I was never done being single in the first place. Plus, cheating is the scummiest thing someone can do in a relationship
No, even if she never found out one is too many times, that would just be proving to yourself that she isn't good enough, besides I don't want to be that kind of person
No. Completely happy in my relationship of thirty years. But I cheated the shit out of the first wife - she deserved it. She only found out when I told her.
Not smarter, just better liars. A woman can stand there and tell you something, and come back a day later after changing her mind, and completely deny what she said. When you prove it out for them they'll tell you their feelings changed. That's not smarter.
Sadly. Yeah. It was a long distance relationship and we were fighting. And a old friends with benefits was around. Its sorta ok though she told me like a month later that she had a boyfriend the whole time and was cheating with me.
I wouldn't because once you go down that path it just gets stupid... you think the othet must be also and all that and thats just not how i want to be with my girl.. my dad always said the best part about not being a liar is you can't get caught
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