If you 100% knew your boyfriend/girlfriend husband/wife could NEVER find out, would you cheat on them?

[Anonymous]

Please be honest and be anonymous if you must. If you could explain why and a bit about your relationship that would help.

Yes

No

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Absolutely not, never. I love my boyfriend more than anything, and I am and will continue to be loyal to him no matter what. I think cheating is one of the top worst things you could do in a relationship. He treats me better than anyone has ever treated me, and he’s been there through thick and thin. I am happy with the way our relationship is and I wouldn’t want to do anything to jeopardize or break our relationship. If I was unhappy with one aspect of our relationship, I’d let him know so we could fix it, instead of doing something so selfish and destructive.

[NZGirl07]

Absolutely not. I'm an extremely loyal person, and ever since I was young all I've wanted is a partner who can be my best friend, someone I can do everything with. My boyfriend is an amazing person, we spend most of our time together and are extremely happy. I believe cheating is morally wrong, and I would never be interested in another person while dating someone.

[IJhonnyI]

Wow sounds like your boyfriend is living a dream good for him

[IJhonnyI]

And you godbless🙏🏽

[NZGirl07]

Aw thank you. Well wishes to you too :).

[IJhonnyI]

Yep same here, kinda hard with past experiences to trust a female not being sexist its just that my trust issues, yea well ill just leave it at that no need for further explanation seriously make sure too keep him happy and make sure he gives the same care back I'm sure you guys are jus a reminder 👍🏼🙏🏽 take care and thank you

[NZGirl07]

That's fair enough, I have some trust and jealousy issues too from being treated badly by my first boyfriend, but it just takes finding the right person and working on yourself to overcome them. I will do, thanks!

[IJhonnyI]

Yea it's just that I was so misguided, she was playing the role so perfectly, she did certain things correctly just too blind me in the long run, if that makes sense, cruel world we live in, mostly the females around my area I'd rather be single reason I am and I have been doing 10 times better but it's would be amazing to have someone to care about me the way that I care about them but that's like asking me to be able to breath in space without an astronaut suit

[NZGirl07]

I understand that. I was also misguided by words, but actions show the truth. It may feel impossible to find someone trust worthy but they are out there. Life has it's plan, and everyone has their match. Sometimes it just takes a while.

[IJhonnyI]

Yea thank you I guess I needed to hear that I really appreciate it 😌🙏🏽I'm gonna pray for you and your boyfriend for the best and only the best 👌🏽

[NZGirl07]

Life is hard and gives us challenges but we can get there! Thanks so much, wishing you a wonderful person to come into your life.

[IJhonnyI]

Thank you nicest things I've heard all these 8 months.

[NZGirl07]

🙏💫

[Little_Bumblebee]

I'm currently single. But I wouldn't cheat. I don't do that.
I hate cheating to my very core.
It doesn't matter if the other person gets to know you, you're still doing a very respectless act towards a partner, and breaking that trust, you're breaking the relationship and the bond you have.
Even if they didn't know, I would know. My conscience couldn't live with that.

[unknownforever]

No. Even if the boat is rocky in the relationship, it is never okay to cheat. At times my boyfriend pisses me off, but I love him. I could never go home to him, look into his eyes knowing what I had doner to him. If you want to cheat, you shouldn't be in the relationship. I love him. The relationship should be completely honest, and just you two.

[Blackcosmo]

I would never do something so wrong because it completely goes against all my morals. That's such a wretched thing to do and he would be hurt when he never wronged me.

[IJhonnyI]

If I had a girlfriend no I never would've and I had one but she ended up being the one who... but fuck that I don't even like speaking on it 👍🏼🤝🏼

[MegaMachina]

No. If I wanted to sleep with other people, I'd discuss about opening the relationship. If I wanted to date other people, we'd discuss being poly. But cheating is breaking that trust, whether they find out or not.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Just because she won't find out? Come on man No of course not, that would be a rubbish thing to do.

[MrOracle]

I've had such opportunities - including a very naked (and VERY attractive) girl trying to pull me in bed with her - and yet I didn't cheat. Not saying it was easy to say no, but I said no.

[exitseven]

I did this once and I felt so bad about it I would never do it again.

[jshm2]

No. But then, polyamourous relationships are like that.

[RuthlessAggression]

So you're asking

Is the only reason people cheat, to get away with it?

[mandyfire98]

No because I have a conscience.

[OBB29]

I wouldn't want to carry that guilt.

[LordOfThePines]

Never, I couldn't even fathom being that selfish.