Why is it better for men to keep multiple women vs settling on only one?

[Vegasrunner]

[Zack-Bann]

It’s so not better


Imagine dealing with multiple sets of problems


Multiple PMS days


Having to appeal to the ideal of multiple women with different tastes
(One likes you with a beard the other wants you clean shaven…)


What’s the point?
More sex?
Might as well get more sex from one woman, I’m sure she’d appreciate the activity if you know what you’re doing


I can’t think of an upside that’s worth the hasy

[Vegasrunner]

@Zack-Bann Actually it would be no PMS days as you could simply see the women who aren't on their period when one is. I literally ask my women to give me their cycles so I'm far away when they start. Also is you're fitting to the appeal of one specific woman, you're doing something wrong, you want to appeal to a broad general audience. Why would any man want to have more sex w/ the same girl if he came get sex from new girls?

[RavVid]

Well women try to get sex down to once a week so men need at least two. In tribal days men had a 50% mortality rate so the effective male female rate was 1:2.

Widows were reallocated to surviving men. One poor Australian aborigine guy ended up with 27 to look after. After a hard day hunting he would have come home to find he had more hard work to do.

[PretzelBeanie]

Maybe it is difficult to find one woman who enjoys all the same things you do, and so being with multiple women could allow you to explore different things you like without anyone feeling pressured to try something they are not comfortable with or just do not enjoy themself. This could be true for sexual things, and for hobbies and entertainment preferences.

[Anonymous]

because it is easier to maintain 1 woman than to try to maintain 3 women.
Imagine having to text/ call / meet all 3 women consistently.
that is a lot of work.
plus, they're likely to leave if you don't see or invest effort consistently.

[Vegasrunner]

@Anonymous Why do you think it's easier to maintain 1 woman. If a woman believes she is the only woman a man can get she's, not going to treat him like shit, and then loss respect for him. If you have multiple women and one leaves you can always just replace her with another one?

[Opinion Owner]

@vegasrunner

because why would you buy 3 women dinner at a resturant , when you can only buy 1 woman dinner?

why wouldn't you just lay in sofa and relax on a weekend than feel pressured to take 2 other women on dates by next Monday?

women leave when you don't invest into them.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner I think I see your confusion. I agree with you that woman are a lot of work and high maintenance individuals desperate for attention, however, in my opinion you're a bit confused as to how relationships work, why do you think settling for one woman allows a man to lay on a Sofia for the weekend? Also if women leave, as you claim wouldn't that mean it's better to have backup women? What does the guy w/ one women do when she leaves?

[Opinion Owner]

@vegasrunner

if you can't dedicate enough time, money , attention, dates to your back up women... they will leave you.

if you don't text back to those 9 women ON TIME, they will ditch you for other men

what about this is so hard for you to understand?

why would you have back up women if you can't maintain them?

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner I'm the one w/ multiple woman so it's not me that needs to understand. You're advocating why it's better for women if they are kept by one man. I'm asking why is it better for men to keep multiple women. Women leaving men is a reality whether you have 1 or 100 women, however if you only have one women and she leaves, how is that better than just replacing her w/ a better one?

[Opinion Owner]

@vegasrunner

because your life will be extremely hard trying to keep multiple women... and plus... they won't stay

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner Perhaps we have different definitions of hard. Having access to multiple women whenever you want is a lot easier than being limited to one woman. Would you rather your business have one customer, or millions of customers w/ the same value of your one customer? TBH that's an insane concept because everyone wants options that why there are different banks, restaurants, schools etc. Also if your concern is that they will leave then wouldn't the ultimate fear be that the only one you has leaves? I can't tell if you're being serious but that's a ludicrous position to hold. The question was why is it better because it's obviously better, your poor argument only validates why. Like most women you're making an argument for what's better for you, but you haven't articulated anything that's better for the man.

[Opinion Owner]

@vegasrunner

you won't have access to multiple women for long... once they see you don't have the time or money to dedicate to them then they will leave.

i don't know what makes you think you will continue to have access to them

maybe think about reality rather than thinking out of your imagination.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner I think I understand your confusion, and recognize your fear. People "leaving" is a part of relationships, I recognize that as a woman it's a worry that you have because women tend to have more inflated egos, however men of value don't have time to worry about that. If a woman leaves there's billions of women in the world to replace them, and remember it's easier for men to find what they want in women vs women finding what they want in men. Also women dont like men who smother them, so keeping them at arms length is actual an attraction trigger. One of my woman currently lives in another country and only gets to see me once every few months, and she goes wild when she gets the opportunity to get my time. Dont feel bad not understanding this as most woman struggle understanding how to get women as a man. Besides it doesn't explain why it would be easier if you only had one girl.

[Opinion Owner]

@vegasrunner

what is the point of constantly looking for a replacement because none of them would stay?

imagine having to buy 3-6 women for dates every week. but none of them would stay.
then you have to go back and put more work into finding another woman to replace them

I think that you need to realize that women are the prize. Men can't live without women. Women can live without men. Women can even have babies without husbands. Men can't have kids without wives.

[Opinion Owner]

imagine having to buy 3-6 women for dates every week. but none of them would stay.
then you have to go back and put more work into finding another woman to replace them

imagine having to text 6 women all at once. Having all 6 women expecting you to buy her dinner at least once a week.

isn't that a waste of time, effort and money?

when they realize you haven't bought then dinner in 2 weeks, or are replying back late, they will ditch you

what is the point?

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner I think your premise is off. For starters a formal date isn't required for HV men to date women. I have a $15 max first date, second date depends, and if I don't have sex after the third date, I just drop the woman. Once I'm in a sexual relationship, there's no additional cost to continue to have sex w/ her. If we want to go out on something formal, but sex is am implied condition of my relationships. Regarding putting more work in. That is only true for the guy who limits himself to one woman, once he loses that woman, he has to start from scratch. It's going to take him a lot longer to find a new woman, than the man who already has women lined up. Texting 6 woman isn't difficult, I'm in running text conversations w/ dozens of women, however I never text more than once per day unless we're seeing each other that day. The dinner part is weird, but you are correct woman do tend to be needy, but this still doest explain how settling for one would be more beneficial to the man?

[Opinion Owner]

@vegasrunner

Ok. How much would it cost you to pay for 6 dates with 6 women in 1 week?

Where are you gonna find the job to go on 6 dates a week?

Then when you dont have enough money to take 6 women out on 6 dates a week, they ditch you.

Now you need to spend another 2 weeks to find a new woman

wouldn't your life be worse off this way?

If you dont want to settle for 1 woman, dont date.

[Opinion Owner]

Where are you gonna find the TIME*** to go on 6 dates a week?

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner Great question, and please don't be embarrassed that you don't know these things. This validates my premise that woman don't understand how relationships work, for obvious reasons.
1. The cost depends on the stage of the dates. If I'm already seeing them it could be nothing, assuming they all just came to my place that week. If their first dates max it would cost is $20 per date as I don't spend more than $15 on a first date. There are situations where it could cost more, like if we went on vacation, but to answer your question I would say the median cost would be about $10 total.
2. I live in America, and my advice to you would be to start a business, a job is for young men and suckers, and people without talent.
3. Not relevant
4. You only need to spend time finding new women if you limit yourself to one. The point of being a HV man is that women are attracted to your status anyway. Also your belief that if you lose one out of the 6th you need it immediately replace her is a bitter creepy. If I have 6 and lose one I still have 5. Personally I only deal w/ three at a time, so I'll typically just replace one vs add them to the roster.
5. No my life is better, most of the men who I personally know who are able to pull this off have better lives then the ones stuck with one woman, and my hypothesis is that having options makes for a much better life.
6. Why would anyone stop doing something they enjoy simply because it triggers someone they don't know? Also if dating multiple women is as difficult as you're attempting to pretend it is, then you wouldn't need to advocate for not dating.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner TY for this question, as it again validates women's lack of understanding about how relationships work.
I don't "find" time it's a finite resources and everyone gets the same amount. Your questions all stem from a false belief that women dictate terms and use the threat of leaving as leverage. As long as you hold that premise you will continue to struggle to understand. I dictate how I spend my time and who I spend my time w/. If the consequences to that is a woman leaving, oh well I've got another one ready and willing to take her place. You personally want to "feel" special, so you want to believe that there is some sense of devastation if a woman leaves, what I'm explaining to you is that sense of devastation is predicated on the man's inability to get another woman. This is another reason your position is odd. If you believe having a women leave is a negative, why would it be better to have to settle for one, vs having backups?

[Opinion Owner]

@vegasrunner

my question is... if you hate women so much, why are you dating?

aren't you better off dating man?

because if you think that you can mistreat a woman yet believe she would stay, you're delusional.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner you woukd first have to explain why you correlate dating women to hating them. I'm heterosexual so no I wouldn't be better off dating a man. What is the "mistreatment" part? None of this answers the original question as to how settling for one woman is better than having multiple options.

[Opinion Owner]

@vegasrunner

because you keep acting like women aren't worth your time so you always want to replace your woman with someone else- which you can't realistically keep up with.

so why bother dating?

you keep talking about women not being worth your time.

listen, if you keep this sort of attitude towards women, I promise you that no woman would want you or think you are worth HER time.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner Aren't you being a bit dishonest? You brought up women leaving, to justify why men shouldn't have multiple women. That doesn't make any sense though because if your saying women leave then why would being stuck with one be better? I also never said anything about women not being worth my time, I said they need to earn my time which they do because it is valuable. My "attitude" is what has allowed me to be w/ 100's of women, why would I want to take advice from a random inexperienced woman online?

[aaron13547]

It's a good way to screw up your life and for sure way to end up unhappy. The world has a way of giving people what they deserve...

[Vegasrunner]

@aaron13547 So you don't believe Divorce screws up a man's life?

[avery58]

Usually only redpilled guys say this, which I find contradictory seeing how they don't trust women and most of them openly resent them.

[Vegasrunner]

@avery58 What is "red pill"?

[HighValue]

It isn't. It shows bad morals and a lack of loyalty and self control.

[Vegasrunner]

@HighValue So you're saying women who want a man to protect and provide lack morals?

[Anonymous]

As long as she's hot - one is enough for me.

But I can't get even that one...

[BeenThereLovedIt]

like stocks, diversify.

[soe11]

• I have only one.

[Vegasrunner]

@soe11 I'm sorry to hear that.