How often do you talk to someone you are only dating or talking to?

[Simslover92]

Is it everyday, every few days, or every few weeks?

Everyday

Every few days

Every few weeks

Longer

[InknKink]

Depends.

If it's online dating and we've never met, I'll send a response message daily, but aim to limit the communication as much as possible proceeding a date.

If it's just fling, I'll only communicate when wanting to hook up.

If it's a more involved relationship, maybe once a week, sometimes a little more, sometimes less. Primarily preceding and following physical dates.

In more serious relationships, I tend to communicate daily, but not full blown hour long conversations. It could just be a couple text messages or maybe a quick 10minute phone call.

My goal when communicating with someone of interest is just enough to let the person know I've been thinking about them but not so much that there isn't a drive or push for a physical interaction.

[Joshydavid25]

Usually daily, and sometimes all day.. Which is probably a mistake because they seem to get bored quickly if that happens.. Lol..

[Simslover92]

I don't usually get bored with that but nobody seems to want to do that so I just stopped expecting it.

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, same... There's a lot of short attention spans, and too much illusion of choice, so nobody wants to try and get to know the person in front of them that they are attracted to enough to want to..

[Simslover92]

Right. There is. It's really sad what dating has become in 2025.

[Joshydavid25]

IKR, it sucks.. SMH.. Everything is all topsy turby... Social media didn't ruin everything, but it definitely exacerbated how humans are.. You know just too much of "yeah she/he's nice, but I wanna keep my options opened, let's see what the next person has for me".. Not to mention, a lot of scarred people that put the bad attributes onto every person after that..

[Simslover92]

It really does suck and social media definitely didn't help in making it better for the dating scene it made it 1000x worse. Thirst traps galore smh making people not want to take dating and relationships seriously. They see something new and shiny and instantly want to move on to the next. It's infuriating. You're definitely right. And yes putting the bad attributes onto every person after is another thing that is infuriating.

[Joshydavid25]

"They see something new and shiny and instantly want to move on to the next."

Exactly.. The grass is always greener on the other side till it's not and then everybody's bitter and single and complaining about everybody else.. It's a toxic cycle.. People definitely do not take dating seriously anymore.. OF, porn, and all that messed up people's brain and dopamine receptors making it harder for people to connect.. I totally feel you on that..

[Joshydavid25]

Thanks for MHO Simslover!.. 😄

[Simslover92]

You're welcome! 😊

[On_cloud_wine]

If I’m talking to someone, it’s maybe once a day. I had a guy who had a major crush on me and i never initiated a conversation first.. he would contact me like every 3 days until I had to really draw a line and let him know I’m not interested

[Abbycado]

When my boyfriend and I started dating it was pretty much daily.

[Abbycado]

Ty, hun, not mho!

[ohsheeT]

Well im not dating at this time and so im not talking to anyone in some ways im shy someways not but when I try to talk I want to keep it going other wise I might freeze up and it takes me a min to get it going again

[ohsheeT]

But like with dating, I like to talk every day or if just chatting if they dont mined the same thing, if its ok with them

[Finchie40]

Every day , someone that really likes you and you really like them , isn’t going to go days without talking to each other

[MemeSupreme]

everyday but its not ALL DAY like bc im busy at work

we might talk like a few times that day. i'll make sure to communicate that im busy tho

[mysteriousNicholas]

Every few days. life gets busier after the 20s.
Nowadays I just chat to friends sparingly 👀😵‍💫 and that works

[Speaking_Frankly]

Between every day and every few days. Every few weeks sounds wasteful to me but to each their own.

[WhitneySnow]

Every day if I really like them, every few days if I’m not that much into them

[Nikki1989]

Only dating?

Not that often; I am busy most of the day.

[WonderingManII]

I don't do this, but I remember a girl that used to call me everyday. It didn't go on for very long. Just a week or two.

[JohnnyB123321]

I’m starting to see a girl now and we at least text daily to say hi and see how our days are going. We are not at the phone calls for just saying hi yet. And I’m not sure where I’m at with moving forward either.

[McSteamy]

I just chat with a girl in here everyday. Good friend.

[es20490446e]

I purposely avoid "talking", as most women are you time wasters.

[loveyouoak]

I'm not talking to anyone right now, but if I were, I'd talk with him every day.

[Xawyx-2]

I'm not dating anyone, but if I had a girlfriend, I would talk to her every day.

[Anonymous]

You do not stimulate relationships, especially new, feelings lag and eyes wander.

[12karen]

As much as I can... every single day

I ghost the rest...

[queenofcardio]

Ideally I'd prefer to communicate at least once a day

[Sunkiss_]

At least once a day to let each other know your thinking of them.

[Pearl222]

Everyday

[lyrem04]

To me dating is exclusive… we talk everyday!

[exitseven]

probable every few days.

[dudeinohio]

I usually talked to whomever I was dating daily.

[Jerre]

At least every other day

[Jerre]

@Simslover92 Thank you for the Like

[serious]

Never dated.

[Clear_Skies10]

Every day.

[linka_pat307]

Every day

[Shynicole22]

Everyday