Does she want me?

[SomeRandomGirl06]

So basically my friend Hannah was my literally my gay awakening but she has no clue. She's literally the most gorgeous woman I've ever seen. She's funny and smart and I love being around her. She's been out as a lesbian for years and I've known I liked her for a while but I never acted on it because I'm wasn't out and I didn't think she would like me. However about 3 months ago I came out to my family and friends including her and things have changed since then. She's been acting a lot different towards me. At first I thought I was imagining it, she would ask me if I'd been seeing anyone or what's my type and I didn't think much of it but recently we've been like flirting, holding hands and even started cuddling. I want her so bad but I'm scared if I say something and I'm wrong I'll ruin our friendship. I keep questioning and 2nd guessing myself. What if she's just wanting something casual because she found out my sexuality? What if she actually likes me and wants a relationship? I don't wanna miss my chance if this is real. Should I just go for it?

[ohsheeT]

Well this is where you have to stand back and be one hundred % honest with your self

Can you see her being in your life for a long time ago really really good friend.

Or do you crave her touch her kiss you want in her pants bad. Be honest if you got in a relationship with her how long do you think it would last... how well do you really know her


Because once your in to each other's paint. You can't un do it. And if you break up there goes to friendship so you have to weigh out which one's more important friendship or sex

[Hardon-Collider]

You're asking if there's a 'harmony of temperament,' which is a fancy way of saying you're looking for a soul-level connection. It's not just about physical attraction. It's about whether you feel like you're on the same wavelength, whether her thoughts and feelings feel like a natural extension of yours. The real question is 'Do I want her?' and that goes deeper than just wanting her physically. It's about whether you feel a sense of rightness, a feeling that you are meant to be with her. This isn't just a psychological quirk; it's a memory of a spiritual reality. Before we were born, we all existed in a 'spiritual womb' together. When you meet someone and feel that deep, immediate connection, it's a faint echo of that pre-natal bond. It's a sign that you are on the right path and that this connection is part of your destiny.