I dated a woman for about a month or so. It was butterflies and rainbows for a good few weeks. Very lustful, and kept telling me how much she liked me. We’d spend the weekend together and the fun continued every 4 or 5 days when we’d go to party and so on. Then after a few FaceTimes and planning we’d meet and our communication was different from how we’d plan the night and she’d get upset. (I’d interpret we’d meet there and continue the night back at her place, she’s thought I’d come to her place to start the night) I understood were she’s coming from, but she couldn’t get mine. She started phasing out from there. Less tests, lots of leaving me on read and so on. I got the hint she wasn’t interested and we met to confirm “that she’s confused” and I reconfirmed with myself after being “subtly” blown off multiple hangouts.
Fast forward weeks and she’s continued to reach out to me via instagram and complimenting my story. I responded to them but I don't know if she’s trying to rekindle or just continuing to want attention. I feel like it’s the most minimal thing to reply to someone’s story but at the same time if you’re not interested in someone why continue interacting with them? I let her go mentally after liking her a lot but she continues to show and tell me things via instagram
Fast forward weeks and she’s continued to reach out to me via instagram and complimenting my story. I responded to them but I don't know if she’s trying to rekindle or just continuing to want attention. I feel like it’s the most minimal thing to reply to someone’s story but at the same time if you’re not interested in someone why continue interacting with them? I let her go mentally after liking her a lot but she continues to show and tell me things via instagram
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