If you have a little sister, only a couple years younger than you, would you be okay with one of your best pals dating her?

[Anonymous]

I have a little crush on my brothers pal, I noticed that he swiped me on tinder but I am too scared to swipe him back because of what my brother might think if he ever finds out…

I’d be mad

I’d not be bothered

[ohsheeT]

I did this. On the weekends. My friends advised would go to the clubs. Or to the lake camping. My best friend had a sister. Couple years younger than us and she would always try to hook me up with one of her girl friends. But my friend would aways try to pick up on them and some times they would come to me and say hey I really like you but he's trying to be with me and I don't want to but his sister would say it's ok Steve know you like him and bla bla bla well any way the were some mornings. We would walk out if a club at 5 or 6 in the morning my friends house was the closest so we would go there. My friend and his girl friend would go in to his room and his sister and I would be out in the living room acting as if we were watching TV and one thing lead to another we had to hide it for a long time

[Zack-Bann]

I don’t have a sister but my best friend does


And I always kinda had a crush on her
I never made any move out of respect for the friendship (both with him and with her)


And my friend has been there throughout my whole dating and sexual experiences
He knows who I am and who I’m not


So I wonder if he would flip out or would welcome me dating his sister
(She’s not even single so it’s all a hypothetical at the moment and chances are it will always be but it’s something I will ask him about one of these days)

[Cormac995]

If my sister was seeing my best friend, I would actually be thrilled. My sister's current boyfriend is a fucking jack ass and at least my friend is a decent guy, and I know he'd take care of her instead of enabling her worst qualities so that she'll enable him back. They have a very toxic dynamic where they are feeding each other's worst traits. Still my sister is my sister so I want what's best for her and frankly my friend would be a good influence on her. He's very measured and not self-centered at all and he often prioritizes others over himself.

[exitseven]

This is a good question. I suppose it would depend on the friend. Some are better than others.

[Alex-Snow]

As long as they respected her and were kind. If they were having sex I would ask them to always use a condom

[Staximus]

If it was one of my best pals then I would think it's ok because I know he's not a piece of shit

[Danny_dan92]

As long as he doesn’t hurt her. We’re good

[jahaims]

Just being in tinder is enough to say no

[MasterKS]

dating sisters of friends is normal act nowadays.

[Asker]

I have a really overprotective brother though :/ It’s stressing me thinking of it but at the same time, this guy could be the right guy for me. I know he would treat me well, and not take advantage of me like others have. I know he’d get along with my family, he’s smart and funny… but could I really do that to my brother… It would be selfish, so I don’t know 😕

[MasterKS]

@asker how old you are? isn't it your life your decision?

[Asker]

I’m 19. I suppose it is, but he doesn’t tend to see it that way. He has almost got into fights with strangers for just talking to me before. His friend though… he’d kill him and never forgive me I think 😅

[MasterKS]

@asker i have been with multiple situations like this... LOL! can i follow you?

[Asker]

Do you have a little sister too? 🤣 And of course you can :D You’ll be my first follower

[MasterKS]

@asker you are anon, you need to follow me and i will follow back.

[Asker]

Oh yeah forgot about that 😅