Well actually, my brother and his best friend are sitting right next to me lol (how convient right?) Anyway I'll ask them:
Me: " Hey, is there anything wrong with your best friend dating your little sister?"
(I'm the little sister in this case)
Bro's Best Bud: " What? Yea - hell yea. That's something you don't do."
My Bro: " Nawh - you shouldn't."
Bro's Best Bud: " The little sister should be like your little sister."
( So like my brother's best friend is like a play brother to me - therefore I'm off limits.)
Bro's Best Bud: " Now it's different if you got with the sister, and then you and her brother became best friends."
(That's the loop hole I'm assuming lol.)
According to them, yea, guys don't date each others' sisters. I think it may be more because the guy who his the brother, is naturally really protective of the sister, and not to mention how damaging it could be to the friendship if things go wrong, because now you have a circumstance where the brother may have to choose between his best bud and his sister...
I don't have a brother, but I have a cousin and he will never introduce me to his friends as blind dates or let them ask me out because he's a bit over protective of me and he knows what types of guys his friends are. so I would imagine an older brother would be even worse
So my best friend (she's a girl) has a twin brother and likes me. He said not to tell his sister but I don't like him... It's kind of like this scenario but different
Seriously? I think you know there is a bro code for this one. Didn't you get the memo? If you don't know this, why don't you go ahead and try it. Let us know how it goes over lol. In my opinion it's the quickest way to an ass whippin. No matter who the friend is. Like even if he's a monk or a hippie or something. He'll probly smack your ass. If he's cool though, he'll offer ya a beer after busting your lip. Then calmly explain to you that if you hurt her he'll chop your balls off. And you'll know that he means it. And most likely it will affect the friendship. Even if things got serious, and then suddenly your bringing your "girl" with every where. No one wants to hang out with their sister all the time. It's just off the table. You have to choose which one you want. The homie or the tail. Let me say this, there's plenty of tail out there man. But a good friend is hard to come by.
uhh, its not a good idea. I have two best friends, and the both of their sisters had some sort of attraction to me. I didn't follow up on it or take advantage of it. If I did so , and I broke the girls heart or something along those lines, they would hate me as well. I do remember one time my best friends sister was eyeing me up all day long and just acting shy. My friend notices that and yelled out in the open " He doesn't find you attractive so you can just stop." I know it was a joke but that was still a little harsh. She was somewhat cute tho =/
Opinion
8Opinion
It's mostly discouraged, just because us guys know how we talk and think about girls. And to think of someone that is close to us (meaning, we know them very well and how they think) to be doing that to our little sister, is offputting.
One of my (ex) buddies dated another buddy's little sister, but they kept it a secret for like 4 or 5 months before he was alright with them dating. I told that same ex-buddy that I was sexually attracted to his little sister. It wasn't serious, and was more of a running joke between all of us.
But yeah, it's generally discouraged but I suppose it really depends on the people involved.
I do not see what is wrong. Normally, I have best friends who are good guys who are good enough for my little sister. My sister is good too. So, why should I have a problem?
If I did not have good opinion about one of them, it would be a problem. Also, if I had something to hide from one of them, which the other knows, that would be a problem.
I dated my best friends little sister for a whole year. The rules are, you ask your friend if it's okay and you listen to his rules. Also, you had better let HER break up with you if it's going to end that's the only way to do it and still keep your friend.
Flirting, maybe not if the guy was single. Anything more, and it becomes a bit weird I think. Unless the sister is a twin sister and the guy's age. Then it might still be a bit weird but not as bad.
Yes. There is a guy code about this. Everything included. She's off limits until the guy says it's okay.
Yes there is... you either f*** her well, give her a quality shaking or not at all
"Banging her etc." I loled, but wouldn't say it's in the guy code but uh... it's definitely not cool. But hey I'm banging my best friends ex and he doesn't know because, I'm a douche. If he done the same I wouldn't really care so... yeah.
um. yeah... kinda under the belt to your bro...
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions