What are top signs in an early relationship that indicate a man is being serious?

[Pokerfacegirl]

List of behaviours that are green flag🟩

[Summeroflove]

Number one: Not rushing things at first things don’t seem rushed or like they’re moving too fast. It feels natural like you’re really getting to know one another, see if you’re even a good fit to begin with, and things like that.

Number Two: He doesn’t seem too good to be true. He is just himself… He’s honest maybe he’s not telling you more information then he needs to but he’s not hiding things. He’s not putting on a act and just pretending to be anything he thinks you’re wanting him to be. He’s not saying his favorite good is pizza after you say that it’s your favorite food…

Three: He isn’t initiating sex. He’s not only looking for that maybe not looking for that at all. Instead a genuine connection. Especially if you’ve been on a number of dates and haven’t had sex with one another it’s telling you maybe he’s seeking something more.

[HawkPerception]

He will genuinely want to get to know you. He'll ask you questions about yourself to deeply understand who you are as person, because he wants to find out if you're the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

He will make himself available to you and not make excuses. You make time for the people you want in your life. Not always say you're busy. He will always try to reach out and communicate. Do not play games. If you're also interested, respond. Games are for immature people with a lack of emotional intelligence.

All men who are straight are interested in sex, so it's never out of the equation. And sometimes it's okay if you're vibing and resonating with the guy to put out, but more often than not, a guy who pushes for sex early on and is all he really talks about is only interested in that.

[Pokerfacegirl]

Perfectly explained.

[DishLady]

He’s doing and showing up for you consistently. Some guys are into grand gestures, but the grand gesture is more of an ego boost (for them) than a show of affection, which is more quiet and evident in their consistent interactions with you.


If the guy is attentive to you (in public and private) then he’s most likely trying to let you know he’s serious about you.


If the guy gets jealous (though there’s nothing to get jealous about) and shows laser focus on you… he’s into you. What he DOES with that focus indicates whether he’s serious about you or just obsessed with you.

[Anonymous]

Consistency and effort

[ohsheeT]

He will show you he is with his words his touch his actions read the question I just answered before yours

[aaron13547]

The best signs to me are when I share something I think is going to be a red
Flag and they say omg me to, or that's crazy but I gotcha. That red flag becomes something we bond over rather then something that pushes us apart. Relationships aren't suppose to always be easy and good. the best relationship challenge each other to be better but at the sametime our strengths and weaknesses compliment each other's. To be able to change the color of your partners flag when they hold it up is one of the best signs if you ask me.

[Nikki1989]

He at the very least needs the basics like a good personality, kindness and compassion, respect, intelligence, a sense of humor, honesty and integrity, good communication skills, and shared interests and values. Anything else is just a bonus.

[Hardon-Collider]

Sincerity shows in how a person speaks. A dishonest person is always vague, saying things like 'maybe,' 'maybe not,' and their plans are always 'tentative.' A sincere person speaks simply, directly, and unambiguously. They make clear statements and their words have a natural authority. They speak with a quiet confidence that comes from being true to themselves.

[es20490446e]

Consistency.