Do you think there's a male loser epidemic?

[HawkPerception]

Yes

No

[Chazmatazz269]

I luv “ShoeOnHead”!
I think there are definitely issues that primarily or exclusively affect men, that need to be addressed by the majority of citizens and politicians. But they never have and they most likely never will. So there’s not much to be gained from the wallowing in it.
There are definitely dudes who wallow in it. It’s a problem for them and a problem for society at large. I don’t think we have reached “epidemic” proportions, but there are a lot of people and organizations alarmed by the historically low numbers of people marrying and making babies. And not just in the west. I don’t think it’s an epidemic because i don’t give a sh*t. It’s definitely not all on the fellas either. Men shouldn’t have to marry insufferable women and have children with them just to appease their religion or government. I won’t live long enough to see it become our ruination anyway. Ell oh ell!
Maybe the young’ns have a different opinion. But since they’re the one on boycott, i’m betting not!
I’m only voting to see if my suspicions about who thinks it’s all men’s fault are correct.

[Chazmatazz269]

And, of course, i am. Ell oh ell!

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, I've started watching her again, and forgot how much I loved her takes on things regard feminism and men..

[SixFootSexy]

When you're told your whole life that you're bad or wrong for being male, white, straight, whatever... are we really surprised men decided to check out of a system that is entirely parasitic to them and their goals?

Old people will run this world into the ground before they ever give up any resources or power to the next generation. Without stakeholders, family, a reason to hope for the future, people will only do what benefits them here and now. That's the loser mentality.

It's ironic that women see videogames as such a terrible hobby when they spend hours scrolling social media and take their prescription meds for mental illnesses as a result.

[HawkPerception]

Thank you. Someone who gets it. There were more ignorant comments than I thought there would be.

[aquamint]

I would say that there is. But it also depends on what you view as a “loser”. For me it’s the porn addicts, men that view women as sexual objects and not as people, men who can’t stick to one woman, men who feel the constant need to jerk off and can’t control their lust, men who sleep around (just as the women who sleep around). This isn’t just for men I view women the same exact way because both genders do it, but one gender does it more obviously. Which is why I find it hard to find a good man who isn’t a “loser”, I don’t want some weird sex addict who only wants me for the use of sex… but then again I’m on this app where majority of these men on here fit the “loser” category…. But then there are the cool and good ones that actually use there brain and not there penis as there link box

[Asad1ONE1]

You can easily reverse this because this goes both ways.

[aquamint]

That’s exactly what I said lol.
“This isn’t just for men, I view women the same exact way because both genders do it, but one gender does it more” that’s what I said. Don’t worry bud women are losers too but then again this question was about males, but I also decided to include that I DO INDEED view women at this standards too

[Asad1ONE1]

I don’t think men do those things more often than women. I doubt most women have the reaction that women like you do when it involves men’s “lust” for her. They’d actually prefer that lol. Unless of course, you’re implying infidelity.

[aquamint]

I’m implying both, but at the end of the day you as a man won’t see the things that men do that I do, just as a women I won’t see the things that women do that you see. but then again who watches the most porn? Or jerks off the most? Who sleeps around the most? Who can’t stick to one women? Who can’t control there lust the most? Men. Just like I said women do it too just not as much as men do. Also not a lot of women prefer that and a lot of women do have the same reaction as me, but then again those types of women are not on this website/app lol cause they could care less. Which makes sense everytime I post a question asking why guys are lustful or why they expect women to be on there knees for them what do they say? Sex, sex, and sex. They say that they want multiple women that a women must give them a blow job. That’s why women like me aren’t on this app, but then again this app does show you have fucked up guys really are. Now there are some really good guys I’ve chatted with on this app, but those I can count on my hand

[Cidknee]

With all due respect, statistics say women cheat approximately 25% more than men. Also, they can get a man into bed about a million times easier than a man can sack a lady.

[aquamint]

@Cidknee that’s exactly why I said women do it to, did I leave women out? No, the question is targeted towards men not women. Personally for me can I get a man into bed easier than a man can get a women into bed? No I can’t lol.

[Cidknee]

I just felt I needed to even up the part where "men do it more." There's reasons for that.

You must be the only one in regards to bagging bedroom company.

[aquamint]

@Cidknee yeah I probably am lol.

[Asad1ONE1]

You’re contradicting yourself. Stop dividing people into genders. 🤡

[Asad1ONE1]

Women as a whole don’t masturbate more or less. That isn’t gender specific. Countless women lust and watch porn and masturbate. And many men that don’t.

[aquamint]

@Asad1ONE1 dividing into genders? There are only two genders lol

[Asad1ONE1]

Yes I never meant to imply there aren’t. I’m saying there is no difference in this regard. Anyone can act as you describe. Stop being sexist.

[aquamint]

@Asad1ONE1 dude I literally said both genders do it lol. One gender does it a bit more, relax no one is being sexist. It’s based off of studies done and people I know in my life which is why I’m saying so. If I wasn’t looking at that then I wouldn’t be saying it.

[Asad1ONE1]

Where is your proof that one gender does it more? There is no solid evidence. Also, a lot more women lie about masturbating or lusting after men.

[aquamint]

@Asad1ONE1 I surely don’t masturbate at all lol, just as I don’t lust over men.
But allegedly “women lie about masturbating or lusting after men” or there actually telling the truth but you don’t want to believe what there telling you. I get it a lot of guys do that, just so it can make what he does/his thoughts “valid”. But enough of this, I’m deleting this app, I don’t need to be arguing with men twice my age, if I wanted to do that on my free time I’d argue with my dad

[Cidknee]

Wait, @aquamint !

I have a couple of friendly questions.

[LisaS]

I think there's a society constantly shitting on males epidemic.

[HawkPerception]

Appreciate you calling it out

[ohsheeT]

No I think there are just selfish non caring in the world

The answer is right in front of all of us

. Become one with self
Become one with others
Become one with our universe

[DishLady]

Hahahaha…


There’s a loser epidemic, period. Highly contagious too, so be careful.

[Effably]

There is an influencer epidemic. With that comes visibility to any sufficiently loud, and provocative, voices.

As it turns out men crying very loudly is eye catching. Especially when they throw wild accusations.

As humans I think society is not ready for the constant barrage of visibility. We as individuals handle it for a while but eventually grow jaded.

And lastly, as a species we overproduce men. So if you want to earn money betting on if someone's child will be a man or woman? Absent other information bet man. About 52% of all people born anywhere are men. It is close to half, but not half. I consider it nature making up for how men are much better at dying. In a society where that happens at a reduced rate, we get an increase in lonely men. But mostly visibility.

[HawkPerception]

Around 50.3% of the global population is male and 49.7% is female. Those are the stats I've found from multiple sources. That's pretty much equal. And a big reason for the population leaning towards men is due to Chinese people who committed female infanticide for a good number of years.

Also, what qualifies a person to speak on a topic? Is it not research? By your "influencer pandemic" logic, no one other than people who graduate from university is worth listening to.

[Effably]

Very fair statements.

Firstly. There are more men born. Not a lot more men alive. We have shorter lifespans, die more, so on. I am shocked to hear there is more men. Usually the extra years women live make it more women. What I am saying is, look at male to female births, not people alive.

Anyone who wants to speak on a topic can! I do not think we shoild gatekeep that. I am not saying you need to be highly qualified, although I personally would appreciate some expertise. What I was trying to say is that we are bombarded with opinions. But as humans we have a limited capacity to care and listen paired with a high ability to adapt. So we end up not caring that X or Y happened because we have grown desensistized. Yet if we were not bombarded with these views, we'd be in an outrage. Or we adopt lunacy as a policy.

[HawkPerception]

I have nothing to deny in what you just said.

[Laurenvol]

So funny. Lots of girls just want a guy to buy them stuff. If they guy doesn't then they are losers. Those type of girls deserve nothing good until they grow up.

I guess I was raised different and have had great boyfriends.

[HawkPerception]

Atta girl. The few girls like you out there give me hope

[WhitneySnow]

No. Not is there a slut epidemic or a gold digger epidemic (although granted those two have very specific definitions whereas loser can be anybody you don’t like).

[aceleon]

single most correct opinion with every word i ever said before.
loser is no longer means loser, it means everyone i don't like at this generation.

[Staximus]

We're living in different times now. People can't look at it from the perspective of the past, because we are not living in the past anymore. When my parents got married, they lived in a little apartment about a block from the beach that was $80 or $100 a month. That was in 1967. Those same apartments now are renting for at least $3,000 a month. 1967 California minimum wage was something like a $1.65 an hour, so you would have to work roughly 60 hours to pay the rent for that $100 a month apartment. Now minimum wage is $17 an hour, but you would have to work 176 hours to pay that $3,000 a month rent. That's almost three times the amount of hours worked to pay rent for the same place. Life is not getting any easier these days. When I was a little kid in the early '80s, my neighbor was a meat cutter at one of the local supermarkets. He had a wife that didn't work and five kids, and managed to pay the bills and even buy a new car. Those days are long gone.

[FreyaRed]

No. I think it's a discussion when parasites can't find enough suitable hosts.
If I was a male and would start date someone with worldview like this one blonde girl in TV interview I would run away even if the girl I date doesn't consider me as one of those loser she so despises. I guess probably many did this to her. XD

[Apple1996]

Yeah but that seems obvious. Most men just aren't masculine anymore. They aren't providers, protectors, they expect princess treatment, they act and even starting to look like women. Im pretty sure it has to do with the dropping levels of testosterone in men and also them being porn addicts/being chronically online incels.

[MannMitAntworten]

There is an element to your two opening sentences (and elements of the rest of your comments) I agree with. I have a fiend a year older than yourself. He’s ‘gentle’ and emotional’ whilst at the same time when it is self serving he can be a frosty little shit. The guy has a good heart but lord O’might can he be a flaky and a whinny little bitch. A true marshmallow. Not traits I am used to within guys at all. Ironically he owns his own business. Granted, it sort of fell in his lap and he doesn’t really work his business. But I digress. Then on the other end of the spectrum I have a couple of friends in their late 20’s, both Marine Corps Captains. Holy shit! Two different worlds and very much the kind of men I am used to. Low keyed, accomplished, capable, and damn assertive. Also, both married unlike the whimsical former. I am as you noted, seeing a lot more, ‘gentle’ men around than ever before as you yourself noted. It is disconcerting and frankly relatable. Still, there are new sorts of women who are attracted to this new sort of guy. The modern shy incapable guy seems to be growing in fashionable preference for certain women who do not care for assertive capable men. The world is changing. At least it is here in the West.

[Apple1996]

@MannMitAntworten yeah exactly lots of those marshmallows types of guys around now a days. My husband is military and is a very masculine type of man. Im thankful to have a real man because it seems like they are pretty rare

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Not losers, winners. Men are realizing that there's no happiness and only ruin when committing to modern women. They use their pussy as a negotiation tool, enforcement tool, and they cheat, a LOT. No thanks.

[aaron13547]

I think the problem is men not believing in themselves. Women blaming a man can be a problems but it's a man's choose weather he listens to it of not. This whole website is people's opinions. People believe everything understand the sun. I think what makes a person a loser is when they trust other people beliefs more then their own... that's the epidemic what may cause that is different for everyone

[mysteriousNicholas]

Yes sure there is and I'm probably somewhat a loser in that I'm 31 and a half and still single yet even though I've never banged, I for one can always be grateful I don't have any offspring I'm paying child support for or a divorced wife or ex girlfriend and thankfully I'm clean aka because I'm not sexually active, to the present I've avoided the STDs and Herpes sagas that Millennials must be dodging or experiencing lol 😆😂

[AngryCarl2]

In a very real sense Americans are all losers. You lost your country to the plutocrats and Donald Trump isn't getting it back for you, because he is one of them.

These same men you call losers now would have been good providers in the 1950s and if you women didn't want to you wouldn't even have to work. You could stay at home and push out babies while living on your husband's income.

[dustybiker2]

Men would be fine if they realized adapting is not a bad idea. It's those that think everything should come to them that sit like pouting toddlers.

[Jennz6]

Did you watch this video?

[HawkPerception]

The video I posted? Yes. The video of the screenshot you shared, I have no clue. Maybe, but without a title, I don't know

[Jennz6]

@HawkPerception
It’s a screenshot from the video that you posted

[HawkPerception]

Gotcha and yes I watched it. Can't remember the outfits she used though

[exitseven]

Yes, too may guys sitting on the couch playing video games.

[Mangospacho]

If Shoe0nHead said it, there’s a 45% likelihood that it’s true.

[HawkPerception]

You're not a fan of ShoeOnHead I assume?

[Mangospacho]

No. I think she’s all right. I really liked her on Parks and Rec.

[Sal_Monella]

I think there is a female loser epidemic. Why men don't want them.

[genericname85]

yeah cause losers is what women want these days xD

[Ariesman81]

No question there's a group of men that allow women to get away with their bullshit.

[Cidknee]

No...

[seeyounexttuesday]

100% there is.

[queenofcardio]

Haha no

[Jedimaster6]

No, but I consider myself a loser lol