Am I being led on?

[ashley8888]

I met his guy on a dating app and since we do not live in the same city, we maintain contact through texts, video calls etc. We also met in person and had 5 dates so far; everything has been going well and he says that he would like to become serious with me. HOWEVER, he changes his dating profile pic daily, and it is a bit disappointing because I have not been swiping on other men since I met him. I only log into my profile to see his new daily pic lol lame I know... Do you think he is leading me on until someone better comes up because why would he otherwise change his pic daily? lol

[HollyK21]

If he’s updating his picture every day, that means he’s still active. If he’s still active, that means he’s still looking. There are no other excuses for what he’s doing, so more than anything we can say it’s a big red flag. If I were you, I wouldn’t wanna commit to a guy unless he agreed to get off the apps. I don't know if you’ve had that conversation with him yet but if he’s someone you want to grow with then you can’t be afraid of addressing certain topics, you’re supposed to be able to share what’s on your mind.

[Anonymous]

We'd have to know this guy to answer your question. Unless you've told him you want to date him and only him you can't expect that he's just going to stop. Unfortunately, dating is a numbers game for a guy. And what may seem like a sure doesn't always turn out that way. I think if I'd dated a woman for 5 dates I would be putting the dating profile on hold, but I'm not him. I don't know how many times he's been burned.

And I'm not excusing anything. It is entirely POSSIBLE you're getting led on. Nothing about online dating is ever consistent or honorable.

[serious]

Yes that is very strange and I can understand why you are questioning this.

[jazzy34]

Is this something you've discussed with him? I'd start there.

[RHK36]

He's just dating casually. If you want something serious find a new guy

[Anonymous]

How would we know if you don’t?

[In_Trance]

Have you discussed this with him?