Why dose my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Why dose my boyfriend go back and forth about having a baby we lost are first and both wanted to try again but now he said let’s not make the same mistake.

[ohsheeT]

Well thats fucked up sorry to say sorry, but I'm a j****** and I would have said. The only mistake was I added with you

I apologize for being a Dick, but that was just rude him saying that there was no mistake it was called life.
Something went wrong something happened. It's not your fault. It's not his fault, if he calls it a mistake. It's f***** up. Sorry

Well you both have to be on the same page when bringing a child in to the world

There are many couples out there. That have tried many times and every time has failed.
It's nobody's fault it's just not meant to be in that moment

How does he know that there wasn't a problem with the baby? And there's a higher power or God said no I don't wish for you to go now. It'll be too strenuous. On you both who knows what it sure in the hell is i
Not a mistake. .. I truly am sorry about your loss. I know you probably love your boyfriend.
And I shouldn't call him a jackass so I won't

But he has to have a little bit more empathy towards you. You're the one who was pregnant

Anyway, I've never apologized so many times but I truly am sorry. That I answered the way that I did well. Actually I'm not sorry, but I do apologize.

[Asker]

lol this comment made my day yeah it definitely hurt to hear him say that. And the back and forth thing was not it I’m ready to try again I want a family like one day he wants one then if we fight ge will be like hopefully you ain’t pregnant maybe he just doesn’t understand how much it means but I have said multiple times I’m ready to have a family of my own and if he isn’t ready then maybe this isn’t the right relationship for you. I know it seems insincere but it’s something I’ve been waiting for. And he wants me to act like a “wife” clean up after him an i, cook, clean, work and it dosent seem fair

[ohsheeT]

Wait, wait, wait. You can do things for him but you have other things to do. If he makes a mess, he can clean it. Either that or if it doesn't work out for you guys. Do you know how many things I could get done if I didn't have to clean up any mess. I mean I will even cook. I will even do laundry you just have fold and put away

Damn you just made me the happiest guy in the world. Lol

[integrale77]

Sounds like he wants a kid with you but doesn't want to be seen to be wanting a kid over your health.
If your wanting a kid too you just need to make sure he knows you good with any risks his mind has made up

[avery58]

I think he still hasn't finished processing and grieving the loss, and may be scared of losing the next one. I think therapy may help you guys be better prepared.

[avery58]

Also informing yourselves of any medical risks for a new pregnancy or how to stay safe

[slatyb]

Are you married? You need to talk to him about what you really want, and what he wants. It sounds like he's definitely ready to be a father. If you want a father for your children, maybe you should look for a man who wants to be a father.

[Asker]

I’m not married but expressed i would love to b. And i have he dosent take it seriously and how would i come about that topic?

[slatyb]

definitely not ready

If he doesn't take it seriously, that's your answer. The answer is "no", he does not want to be a father.

[slatyb]

How long have you been together without marrying? If it's more than two years, he doesn't want to marry you either. He wants something else but he'll waste your time because he doesn't want to be alone.

[seeyounexttuesday]

because you aren't married.

[Asker]

That’s not my fault if he wanted to I would lmao

[seeyounexttuesday]

It's your fault you're engaging in unprotected sex. Please tell me you're not being a retard and hoping this baby will make him commit to you

[Asker]

no I always wanted to start a family of my own and maybe it’s something I should of asked before getting into a relationship. I feel it would also make are relationship better