Dating

What do you think is going on with her?

So I’m in a situationship with a woman who’s my age. And we’ve met online. And at first she didn’t really respond because she thought I wasn’t real, but she started loving me when she found out I was. She even bought me a lot of gifts, and started talking about a future with me. Something must’ve happened on her end, and she started becoming less loving. We were supposed to meet together in person. And we got into an argument, because she wanted to see how things would go. And because we weren’t in a relationship. Even after a year of talking. I honestly think her friends changed her. And when we met, it was fun at first, but when I tried showing affection, she got mad at me. And we got into an argument. And she planned to leave early. What was I supposed to do? Say “don’t go?” But as we started hanging out before she left, she changed around. Still no affection. I bought her everything. From food, to cab rides. And I was so sad she left early because I went to another country just to meet her. So I was by myself in the hotel room crying. So I texted her everything wrong and didn’t want to continue. And she texted back super sad, and that’s when I realized, I do love her. And not even like a minute passed by, and I’m over her begging her for forgiveness. Apparently she said she used what little money she had left on our trip. And I felt bad. And she was giving me the cold shoulder for so long. She told me the truth, that’s she’s in so much debt. Like 20k. So I offered to help her because in my mind, if I want to eventually be with her for the rest of my life, I need to help her with her debt. Things happened, and I lost my good paying job and career. And I been working three jobs now. I’m working so hard for us. And doing everything I can for her. It’s been almost three years now. And she doesn’t love me the same as she first did. So she’s been distant. And to be fair, she has begun going to school. And she lost her roommate.

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7 mo
So I been helping her with rent, to even groceries. And a few days ago I got upset she hasn’t been trying as hard to communicate with me. And I honestly think she’s been entitled because she told me we’re not even in a relationship, and I can’t keep having her worrying about wronging me. Because of work and school she has. Plus her health condition. I was honestly crying because she said that we’re not even in a relationship.
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7 mo
But she apologized and said it’s because it’s been three times we had a similar conversation. And she said she just needs time to know if things will go further. She doesn’t like me talking about a future with her. And I literally cry inside all the time, thinking that she can leave. And I’m out here working so hard for her. Doing everything and anything for her. And she doesn’t even know if she wants to be with me? I told her this, and she just said she needs time.
What do you think is going on with her?
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