Girls, If you were a man would you love yourself?

[msg321]

Yes, I would

No, I wouldn't

[RandomGirl42]

I will try to answer this one different than your other one if I understand it right. I like being me so I don't see why that would change if I was a man but this is the part where I overthink stuff and can get confused, if I was a man I wouldn't quite be the same me as when I am female. So, then, for whatever reason I might not like myself at all 'cause I might look at things differently 'cause now I would have a male pov. Or something. 😳

[msg321]

No, it doesn't count because they are already the same questions. I asked same question twice because I wanted to open the question to girls only first but I forgot it so I asked same question again and opened it to just girls so I still take your answer as "If I was a guy I would marry me" 😂

[RandomGirl42]

Lol! Oh. Ok. 😊

[RandomGirl42]

And thank you for the MHO!

[msg321]

You're welcome 😊

[AvaRay]

If I were a man, I’d fall for myself
not cause I’m perfect, but because I’m real..

I carry both strength n softness,
I speak with depth, not noise,
n I love with intention, not impulse..

I’d fall for the calm in my chaos,
the fire in my silence,
n the way I make connection feel rare yet effortless..

Cause I don’t just draw attention…

But, I stay in someone’s mind long after the moment ends.. 🥂

[msg321]

As a man I can confirm that those are really the traits a man desire for his woman

[AvaRay]

Thank u, well it takes a man with real depth to see value beyond appearance..

Not many recognize that a woman’s true allure lies in her balance n
in the calm she brings, the fire she holds, n the way she chooses to love with intention, not impulse..

It’s rare to be seen that way n even rarer to be understood.. 🥂

[RandomGirl42]

You worded that so well.

[Genie23]

I don't even love myself as a woman. I'm content with myself tho. I think if I was a man, I'd still be content. Wouldn't exactly love myself.

[msg321]

Why don't you love yourself? As far as I know you are a good person.

[Genie23]

I see flaws in me. I wish I didn't overthink or cry easily especially if I had an argument. I am afraid of many things whether it's darkness, some animals, insects, speed or afraid of failure. So, I'm far from perfect and I'm trying my best to overcome these issues. 😅 That's why I don't love myself... at least not yet.

[msg321]

Ah ok I see thanks for detailed reply but you know there is not a perfect/flawless person. Everybody has flaws but at least you are aware of your flaws. Lots of people have lots of flaws but they even don't have any idea about their flaws. They see themselves perfect. If you are aware of your flaws this means you can correct them. In addition like I wrote before everyone has flaws. There is a quote which belongs to Rumi its English translation is like that "the one who seeks a perfect friend will remain friendless" so we have to love ourselves and other people with their flaws that's why you should love yourself with your flaws because according to my experiences if you don't love yourself nobody loves you.

[Genie23]

I guess you're right. Your words kinda help me feel better about myself. I'll tell myself not to judge myself too hard.

You're so sweet, bud 😊🫶

[msg321]

Awe you are so sweet too, sis 😊 in my opinion the most important virtues are compassion, honesty and justice and I think you have all of them. The rest is insignificant flaws. I also want to admit that maybe it is embarrassing to say that as a man but I am afraid of insects too much like you. Actually it is very interesting to afraid of them. We are giants to them but we are afraid of them. They are the ones who should be afraid of us. Do you think what they think when they see us?

[MemeSupreme]

i dont love myself already

why would becoming a guy change anything lol

[msg321]

Why don't you love yourself?

[MemeSupreme]

is that a thing people actually experience

[Anonymous]

I don't know, I don't act like a man so my personality is not one I would be attracted to as a girl.

[Nikki1989]

I would have full confidence in myself. Calling it love is probably the wrong word.

[Anonymous]

I don't know. But I sure will be loving ON MYSELF that day. He he he

[NobodyXox]

Yes definitely.