Does this man have mental health problems or something?

[Anonymous]

So I met a guy on a dating app called OkCupid. We texted and we decided to meet at a big train station in London. He decided to take me for a walk, no food or anything which I accepted because we might not lead to anything.

I told him I’ll be there at 6 pm, but I was late by 10 minutes. He then told me why I was 10 minutes late and that I should stick to my words

He then told me when I saw him apparently I just walked off past him without shaking his hand or greeting him. Deep down, I was nervous.

We didn’t started talking and we walked. I did not want to walk as it’s cold. I just wanted to sit inside a café and have a coffee with him. He didn’t even want anything.

The entire time it was like he was lecturing me. He said that if I’m not interested, we should just end it here.
I told him I find him very attractive and then he was like “if you find me attractive then why did you just walk past me? And why did you not show me that you are attracted to me?”

At that moment, I just didn’t know why I needed to explain myself. This person is so weird. I told him that I was nervous that’s why I just walked past him and we just met. Why is he giving me lectures? No man has ever done this

Updates

9 mo

Update: thankfully I didn’t give him my number. It ended yesterday.

When somebody comes late, they apologise you don’t need to tell them off like you’re a teacher or something

[ohsheeT]

Even worse that was it no game no heart no personality

I would have got up and walk away because that not a date

Thank God you were late could imagine if you would have on time. He would have had nothing to talk about

[pierre7i]

Good on you for not giving him your number and for ending it quickly. He sounds like he will want to totally control whoever is unfortunate enough to find themselves in a relationship with him !

[purplepoppy]

I think calling it mental problems is a bit too kind, that guy is fucking nuts plain and simple. Consider yourself lucky you got away.

[itsannalee]

Move on, he is not a good person for you.
You would get a lot of headaches with him and drama.

[BriamG22]

Sounds like a narcissist and a control freak to me, if he's acting this way on the first date imagine what he's gonna be like later on in a relationship.

Glad you ditched him after that first meeting lol, some people are just insane.

[Unap0logetic_]

He sounds like he has control issues and possibly some other underlying issues. Please be careful when you’re meeting people from dating apps. They tend to have some of the worst people.

[Alex-Snow]

He is weird. Something is strange about him. I would move on

[In_Trance]

Not a good match. Move on