Since sometimes people are looking for perfection, have you ever dated someone who seemed perfect/too good to be true?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yeah, and then cracks eventually showed as expected

Yeah, I still think they are perfect

Nah

[Anonymous]

This is a great question man. Because it's rare when someone posts a questions that encompasses so clearly why so many women fail at dating and relationships. You see how 45% "yeah then the cracks showed up". They're telling you with this poll that they never even vetted the dude, got to know him, they really have no idea who he us. They are just projecting onto him what THEY want him to be. And then later they are disappointed when he turns out not to be that guy at all.

Conversely the majority of the guys in this poll 41% are saying "nah" we got to know her. We see the cracks and we're either saying know or we are preceeding with caution leaving ourselves an out to bail if pulling this thread gets any worse.

Excellent poll my man.👍

[Anonymous]

Nobody is perfect. I think it’s all about finding the person that is perfect for you, imperfections and all. My partner is allergic to cats, snores and sometimes leaves tornadoes in his wake (clothes specifically) but those are all manageable things that aren’t actual problems.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, I married him.