Have you ever met a person so perfect that his/her perfection is a flaw itself?

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Pretty self explanatory, the title says it all

skin_and_bones13 · Accepted Answer

Yes. I met a guy who was everthing that i wanted in a guy looks wise;
Tall (about 1,95m/6'5), slender and athletic, dark brown/black hair, dark eyes

Personality wise aswell; he was almost done with his study psychology (which i was gonna study the next year), he had an intrest in healthy eating and going vegan (and i am vegan) without me talking about it (he started talking about it so he wasn't trying to impress me with that), he was a fitness fanatic, interested in politics and what is going on in the world, read lots of books and had an really extended vocabulary

But sadly he had a girlfriend.
But he flirted with me a lot
And i flirted back at first, and he had signs that are "red flags" if it was my boyfriend (texting me while he was drunk, holding my hand, being too invested in my dating life). While nothing explicit, it still felt wrong
But after i saw that it was wrong so we became friends instead
He is living with her now
I have the most loyal and faithfull and nice guy now as a boyfriend who is not perfect but thats what i like about him

Kinsey · Accepted Answer

No, not perfect in that kind of way. I think that is a little impossible? If his perfection is a flaw in itself, he could be a figment of your imagination or just someone you met online without ever meeting up in real life.

My partner is perfect because he completes me. We complete each other. He makes up the area im not good at and vice versa. We constantly learn and improve ourselves to becoming a better partner for each other over the years. And that is perfect.

sageevalentine · Accepted Answer

My boyfriend is like gods gift to mankind. You don’t even know. He’s so perfect. Sometimes he like a pimple on his chin, and it makes him look even more perfect. What the hell? He’s 23, tall, athletic, gorgeous, and he’s so calm and stoic and I can’t even talk about it

MusicMayhem · Accepted Answer

Nobody is perfect. But if you think someone is too perfect it's more a sign of your own insecurities, that you don't think you're good enough for them. You most likely are good enough for them but your insecurities will sabotage the relationship because you think you aren't good enough and you put them on a pedestal which is annoying to them.

dantetheexplorer · Accepted Answer

There is no one perfect person.
People have flaws. Some more than others.

This is only slightly related but here's what I learned from training in public speaking for three years:
- to impress the audience, tell them your credentials
- to connect with the audience, tell them your flaws.

BCA6010 · Answer

Usually the image of perfection is a disguise for another insecurity. I know lots of people who come across as perfect when out in public or surrounded by friends but are extremely depressed or have other issues when nobody else is around (or they don't know others are around).

LordFondantFancy1th · Answer

Yes, I really like a girl I work with. She so kind, funny, cute, sexy and witty everyone she comes across adores her and I feel like I'm not good enough so act like a dick to her and talk as if I'm smarter then her to make myself look better when in reality, she just starts to dislike me even more.

princessfromjupiter · Answer

I was on a date with a perfect guy while I was traveling in Scandinavia and when his stylish apartment smelled like chloride and cleaners and kinda looked like no one even lived there I got so creeped out that I more or less just ran away 😂

TacocaT6969 · Answer

Yes. Met one guy like that and I couldn’t help but think “what horrible thing are you hiding?”

TheSikuu · Answer

Most of the world's most famous models, I just kind of find them boring looking.
On a deeper level tho I guess you could say if they're too perfect they'll likely be very intimidating and people won't know how to handle being around them

PondyPand · Answer

There's literally no one on the planet that's perfect.

Anonymous · Answer

Perfection doesn’t exist, and if they think it does it is a flaw that they lack vulnerability and i think they were putting up a facade which is a fault if you want a relation.

JohnathanMaig · Answer

Depends if you mean the kind of person that is like "oh I'm so perfect" or, if it's your thoughts that bring the conclusion of "oh, he/she is SO perfect, I can't find a thing wrong with them" and it annoys you.

Reilly_OG · Answer

I mean I've been jealous b4 of girls that are really pretty and just look perfect but I realized that they have flaws just as well so like no ones perfect

Giggletr0n · Answer

No but I totally get what you mean! They are so perfect it hurts!

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I get what you mean and I did but now I avoid people.

atheistaredumb · Answer

ahhhh no lol unless the girl is literally glowing like a light then no

LisaLisa89 · Answer

No I haven't, but my boyfriend has 😀

Anonymous · Answer

Everybody has flaws. But some people hide them well.

Daniel3035 · Answer

No that’s what you call lust.

Lance1965 · Answer

No such thing as perfect.

Therisinghero12 · Answer

No, I’m good at finding people’s flaws

oOsecret_starlandsOo · Answer

How ironic.

Secret6620 · Answer

I have not.

ChloeStarfire · Answer

Yeah, my boyfriend

ChocolateCheesecake · Answer

Nope

Nia_chan · Answer

Nope.

ScottSummers · Answer

hmm nah

The_Revolver · Answer

I'm perfect

19irish76 · Answer

No one is perfect

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