Just how important is height for a man, in a relationship?

[nik_the_cur]

Important

Very important

Not really

Turn off ( if he isn't tall enough)

[RHK36]

Top 5 metric women look at not that it matters since they'll do whatever they want at the end of the day. Instead of worrying about your height focus on the other metrics that you can change to better prepare yourself and also giving you more opportunities to meet better quality women. Don't chase any woman not willing to chase you back.

[Zack-Bann]

Being short is a skill issue


And I don’t mean how high you can reach


Being short short is a personality trait


You carry yourself tall
You are tall


It’s that simple


Going around wearing your height as a chastity belt is the best way to drive potential partners away

[nik_the_cur]

I feel I am short and I carry myself short too

[Zack-Bann]

I’m glad you know that about yourself
That means you have the chance to change it

No one is walking around with measure tape waiting to see just how high off the ground your hairline is

You need to work on letting go of that insecurity

[Staximus]

If you're not short then you're speaking on something you know nothing about

[nik_the_cur]

@Staximus I mean I am 5'74 (or 1.75m more or less) with thin waist and shoulders

[Zack-Bann]

@nik_the_cur
He’s talking to me
I get that a lot

And I would argue I’m the only one qualified to speak about this.
Because I’m unbiased.
It’s not my predicament
I get to see how other people handle it

And it always comes down to the person

[Staximus]

Now you're just saying stupid shit to justify a stupid answer. If you think what you said is true, you would also believe that a short person knows or can relate to what it's like to be tall, which is ridiculous.

[Zack-Bann]

This isn’t the first time you randomly attack me in the replies of a question that isn’t even yours.

And as a 48 year old grandpa your level of ignorance is downright pathetic

So before you go calling people stupid maybe have some shame and develop a brain because the road behind is already longer than the road ahead for you

[Staximus]

I didn't call you stupid, Mr. Sensitive. I said your response was stupid. Now go back to posing for pictures with your guitar, but next time put your fingers on an actual chord hahaha

[jazzy34]

Very low on my list. As long as he’s a gentleman and treats me well, I don’t care if he’s five eight or six four. Plus, I’m below average height so even “short” men are tall to me. 😊

[nik_the_cur]

Amazing. Hope 5'74 is still fine by you

[Staximus]

5'8"is not short by world standards

[Nikki1989]

Not remotely important unless you are an insecure man with little to offer or a male on here posing as a female, of which there are many.

[nik_the_cur]

I'm a male who has been rejected for my height, simply asking questions

[Anastasia4real]

Height is not a important matter in relationship it's just a fake compliment from fake society like (perfect couple), if a man is tall but not respect her wife then what's the meaning of good height same thing applicable at a wife, the main thing is respect, being loyal..

[nik_the_cur]

Then why many women turn down guys because they are not tall?

[msc545]

Very important. Without height, he's unlikely to have any relationships since women value that so tremendously because they somehow think that it indicates strength, and that if a man is strong, he will be able to protect them. This, of course, is crazy because if you think about it, it takes about one pound of pressure from the index finger to pull the trigger of a gun, which will protect a woman far more than almost anything else a man can do. Nonetheless, women insist that a man must be tall in order to have a relationship with him or to sleep with him. If a woman goes out with a man who is not adequately tall, she will have to endure the derision and mockery of her girlfriends, which most women can't tolerate.

[liel443]

Very important. Not the only thing that counts, but definitely very important.

[nik_the_cur]

How much taller than you has a guy has to be? Or what is the minimum height you find acceptable?

[liel443]

There's no definitive answer. He might be able to make up for it on other areas. He does have to be significantly taller than me, but that doesn't say much because I'm very short.

[nik_the_cur]

Well I hope by that you would also include a guy who is 5'74 lol

[liel443]

That's a bit short, even for me, but as I said, it really depends what else he has going on for him.

[nik_the_cur]

Ouch, any advice then, to make up for it, as you said?

[liel443]

Not really. It's stuff like - be intelligent, be charismatic, be masculine...

[nik_the_cur]

I think I try to improve myself in all of these aspects, if that's gonna make up for the height difference 🙏

[liel443]

I mean, great. I think every men needs to try to work on these things.

[nik_the_cur]

I've struggled with Mt height and dating for a while now, can you please pm me for some insights?

[liel443]

Sure, no problem. Pm me.

[nik_the_cur]

Thanks, but it doesn't allow me because I'm new

[liel443]

Follow me

[nik_the_cur]

I did but still, my xper level doesn't allow me to pm yet

[liel443]

Really?
I just pm you. Do you see it?

[Viola_456]

Not very important i even enjoy it with shorter guys more

[nik_the_cur]

You sound like a keeper. I was with a 5'9 girl who couldn't see psst it

[Viola_456]

Woudnt YOU mind dating taller girl? Im 6 feet a even wear high heels sometimes.

[nik_the_cur]

I love tall girls and I love high heels, so no

[nik_the_cur]

@Viola_456 would you check your pms about this if you don't mind?

[capriVib]

It's important for a man to be at least taller than his girlfriend, as most women don't want to date a man who is the same height or shorter than them.

[bunnyboo24]

Very important but like usual women lie

[nik_the_cur]

What do you mean?

[bunnyboo24]

Women lie all the time to look nice. Ask them to upload images of them with short men they have been with.. they can't cause they haven't

[nik_the_cur]

So even if they day they don't mind about height, they lie?

[bunnyboo24]

Yup.

[nik_the_cur]

Sad. I'm afraid to ask of what else they might say they are OK with but also lie

[bunnyboo24]

Look at who they date not what they say. Next time you see people walk notice the height difference in couples

[genericname85]

it's important to get initial attraction. it's not important if you're already in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

In a relationship? Not very important.

Getting into a relationship I'd say it's 50/50. Half the women it's not much of deal. To the other half it's pretty important.

[Anonymous]

Should be as much as weight for the girls

[Anonymous]

No shorties

[nik_the_cur]

How would you define a shortie?

[Opinion Owner]

5’2” or 5’3”

[Opinion Owner]

How tall are you?

[nik_the_cur]

Anything above 5'3 is fine then?

[Opinion Owner]

I suppose, maybe

[msc545]

Obviously that means no.