Are women into guys who want to be small and or get smaller?

[yotaman99]

[Amy_Mi]

Generally, no.

Not because dominance is required, but because presence matters.

Confidence, self assurance, and emotional strength are attractive.

A man who minimizes himself signals insecurity or lack of direction, which rarely inspires respect or desire.

Attraction isn’t about overpowering, it’s about alignment, energy, and standing fully in your own truth.

[yotaman99]

So guys need to dominate? Because I like being small and I can’t keep a woman

[Amy_Mi]

No, dominance isn’t the point.

It’s about presence, confidence, and self assurance.

Being fully yourself, standing in your energy, and showing direction naturally inspires respect and attraction.

Minimizing yourself or doubting your value doesn’t earn love, it signals uncertainty.

Attraction thrives on alignment, not control.

[yotaman99]

I am being myself though

[Amy_Mi]

Being yourself is essential but self-assurance isn’t just comfort, it’s clarity in action.

It’s not enough to exist, presence, direction, and consistent energy are what inspire respect and attraction.

Confidence shows through choices, not words alone.

So yes, be yourself but ensure your version of yourself aligns with the energy you want to draw.

[Anonymous]

what do you mean by small?

as in height? like get shorter?

[yotaman99]

No im small and i want to be smaller down there

[Opinion Owner]

you want to make your penis smaller with plastic surgery?

[yotaman99]

Well my ex did it with pills and I liked it

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you want it smaller?

[yotaman99]

Well it’s a long story honestly

[yotaman99]

If ya wanna listen