Is it normal to find people attractive while in relationship?

[Anonymous]

So i. Am dating a guy and it's been 2 years now almost , we got to know each other and he is kind and sweet bla bla. As he is in college and obviously there are other girls classmates around , he has a habit of telling me , this classmate of mine yk has brownish hair and her eye colour is different, or when we watch something together he always mentions this actress is so pretty isn't she like that i just noticed he describes it to me so i had to ask is this normal or something doesn't add up? everytime she mentions some girl and tells me she is pretty or has nice hair i get jealous I don't know i feel I don't know it's kinda weird ass feeling. so yeah let me know if it's okay or i am being a baby here.

Thankyou

[jahaims]

Not healthy. You like the unhealthy external validation. Basically a guy is gassing you up and you like it. Because of the validation. That means you don't value healthy internal validation and are unhealthy enough that the validation from your partner isn't enough.

[slatyb]

Of course it is. I'm happily married and I find other women attractive quite frequently. The difference between being in a relationship and not is that when I'm in a relationship, I don't hit on other women.

[HighValue]

It is normal to still find others physically attractive, but it isn't normal to bring it up to a partner to try to make them jealous or hurt their feelings. It is a sign that someone may be too immature for a serious long term relationship.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes that’s ok as long as you are able to share about hot guys you run into and tell him about their hair and other parts. It’s fair right?

[Asker]

Correct

[neoneo]

This behavior seems kind to me and doesn't seem like something that would make you jealous. He doesn't seem like a very kind person.

[Anonymous]

No. But I'm not sure I'd call that attraction. A guy can recognize a woman's objective beauty without having the slightest attraction to her.

When a guy is in love the attraction volume button gets turned WAY DOWN on other women.

[Pterodon]

Of course it’s normal and ok to still find others pretty, handsome, attractive or whatever when in a relationship. It’s if you act on it

[Alex-Snow]

It is kinda weird what he is doing. Is he fooling around that you know of. How is your sex life with him? has it changed lately?

[Asker]

No but I observed he has a habit telling how pretty or beautiful someone is and how they look etc

[Alex-Snow]

I guess it is ok to make an honest compliment on someone's appearance but it should be done tastefully and definitely should not offend their partner.

[zagor]

Of course. Being in a relationship doesn't cause blindness.