Almost the end of the year and still single, anyone else?

[Anonymous]

I’ve tried to put myself out there a few times to find an actual relationship, but the guys just seem to want to hook up :( I don’t want them or there tiny dicks. Like.. imagine texting a guy and he randomly starts talking about how “big” his dick is… then sends a picture comparing it to a remote… it was definitely not big at all.
Anyways…. Looks like it’ll be another year single. But while those dicks are trying to find a girl who will sleep with them I’ll be at the Grand Prix next week

[PeachyPie93]

I'm still single but I have a lot going on in my life rn so I am not too bothered but I recently started talking to guy who lives an hour away in the US and he's hot, seems sweet and we joke about 90's love and getting married all the time.. Just give it time there are still good people around, they are just few and far between lol.

[Asker]

I also live in the US. Yeah I’ve heard “give it time” all throughout my life, I’ve gave it plenty of time. And yet still nothing. I don't know I’m most likely just going to give up, because it’s no use.

[PeachyPie93]

Well you are still young.. having lots of friends helps because they give you ways to meet more men in the world lol

[Asker]

I don’t have any friends lol. And even when I did they didn’t help in any way at all with guys or even when my grandma passed. They just stopped talking and that’s okay.

[Zack-Bann]

Here here 🍻


I thought this year might play out differently but here we are again


End of the year and still my own date to the dance


Don’t take me wrong I’ve been with lots of women but none of them worth keeping around for a Christmas morning cuddle or a New Year’s kiss


It’s just how it goes in our society these days


And it still seems all the good ones are in fact taken

[Asker]

I say this for women and men, not all the “good ones” are taken it’s just that they aren’t the ones that are viewed as attractive.

[Zack-Bann]

Well a “good one” would also be an attractive person no?
(For both men and women of course)

Let’s face it we either settle or we’re infatuated with a person

There’s no other way

[Asker]

It definitely depends what you consider a “good one”, I consider a good one someone who actually treats me good and as a human, and obviously does a bit more than the bare minimum when dating. Looks for do not matter because as people age they lose attractiveness.
But I must say that from what I hear from men is that the women there with has to be a 10/10. Which does make sense because at my job I see a lot of unattractive men come in with very pretty women. And it’s a little sad cause the guy is very unattractive

[HighValue]

I'm single. A 5 or better in looks is good enough for me, (no nose ring, tattoos, short unnaturally colored hair, or obese) but the moral corruption of most women makes them undesirable to me. They also need to be interested in gaming or it really wouldn't work since that is my favorite hobby. (Board games, video games, table top RPGs, etc.)

[Simslover92]

I think I'm going to live the rest of my life single. No expectations whatsoever for next year or the next or 30 years from now.

[TonyMetal___86]

I know how you're feeling because i'm the same 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Bricealan]

Surprisingly, my neighbor, told me after a dinner date with some bozo, ] afterward he sent her a penis picture...Good grief! Relax, Sweetpea, don't let the morons and their tiny dick pics get ya down.

Hope you enjoy the Grand Prix

[TonyMetal___86]

Is this a dick story or what? It seems that you care so much about dicks, that's why you wrote everything in details, so in the end do you want a relationship or a dick? What if the person whom you'll become in love with didn't have a horse dick? 🤣🤣

[Asker]

Where did I state anything about a horse dick? Did I state I was looking for a man with a particular sizing? No… reading and comprehension failure?
Now if you re read with the reading and comprehension skills they taught you in school… I stated that men I’ve been encountering want hook ups, and I do not want that. And that they when I have talked to a guy he randomly starts bringing up his dick, and sends a picture of it. Are you following still or should I dumb it down a bit more? Considering I did not want the dick pic or to talk about his dick, I said it was small. Which it was just like I reported him for unsolicited dick pics. YAY 😁
But since you brang up sizing, no I don’t want a man with a huge dick because then he’s most likely a loser with a huge ego, and no I don’t want a man with a small dick because…. I just want it. A guy with a medium average size is great.

[TonyMetal___86]

Don't worry i knew what you meant from the beginning but you just kept talking with details about dicks and stuff which made the reader forgets about your real problem 🤣🤣

Glad that you want a mid sized dick and not an electric tower haha

[Asker]

Lmao. My bad if I came off rude, these girls I was responding to on Reddit literally could not understand shit to save their lives.

[TonyMetal___86]

You're right and you're a good girl because you want the real thing, a serious relationship and sadly these days it's true that a guy's brain is in his dick!

There nothing more beautiful like a real loving relationship which has it all, personally i only want a relationship which leads to marriage but sadly true love is very rare these days...

[Asker]

Same here!
I mean what I’ve been doing that seems to work at getting the guys that only want hooks up but won’t say anything about it is when we bring up boundaries around a relationship I state that I won’t be sleeping with until 3-4 months into the relationship. And that pretty much drives away the ones that are clearly just thinking with their dicks.
But then their the same ones on social media talking about how there are no good women that want a real relationship…. When it’s just them not being able to find a girl who wants to hook up with them. Doesn’t make sense, but hey at the end of the day it’s better to be alone then to be with a guy who just wants sex

[TonyMetal___86]

True, or it's better to be alone then being with a demonic woman who will ruin my life!

You say that you don't want to sleep before 3 or 4 months that's good from your side but personally idc and won't ask when she will sleep with me because i believe that sex comes after marriage, she will be disappointed if she tells me that she's ready and that i can have her all before marriage, it makes me happy that she trust me but i prefer sex after marriage, i want her to know that i love her, her whole self, cause sex i can have it anytime i want and with ma y woman, so she has to know that picked her because she is special, sometimes her presence with me, her voice, her hugs, her kisses will be enough for me!

I have never forced a woman to have sex with me, it's not like if you don't have sex with me, i'll dump you and i'm not waiting anything from you except for love and care and to make happy for real cause i know that sex will come sooner or later, it's very important ofc but i like it to happen when we are sure that we are going to be with each other forever!

When i love someone i become attached to her, i'm not an animal who just bang, dump and leave!

[Nikki1989]

Nah, been with my husband for over 16 years, married for over 15.

[Vegasrunner]

It's probably difficult for unattractive girls to get a serious relationship this days. Woman want the top guys and the reality is we have options.

[Sebastian100]

That's how dating world is currently. Hard to find a keeper.

[Asker]

Yeah which that definitely sucks. I mean I’m not sure how hard it is for men, but as a women since it’s claimed it’s “easy” for women to get into a relationship. It really isn’t, because you aren’t treated as a human if you aren’t attractive to a certain person.

[Anonymous]

Haha then why did u post this under sexuality?

[Asker]

Because that’s what the catergorg gag suggested, and last time I mentioned sex without using the category my post got deleted

[Opinion Owner]

Ahh ok.