Anyone Else Bored of Being Single?

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Yes it’s me again, lol (before anyone says anything!) Does anybody else feel tired of being single? I can’t seem to meet the right person for me to properly date. I can hardly find someone I’m interested in or there’s been some kind of barrier to us taking the next step.  I don’t know what to do. I’m kind of tired of feeling single and lonely lol. But I’m very cautious about who I date now because I don’t want to get hurt like I was before. I went through some traumatic things earlier this year.

Lov2PlezUgurl · Accepted Answer

Don't think about that trauma if you can because that will always keep you in the dumps I know I've been through some of the worst trauma that anyone could ever go through and it has destroyed my whole life the key to living on is accepting the fact that it wasn't your fault you didn't cause it you couldn't do anything about it and forgiveness I know that sounds stupid but in order to move forward you have to forgive the persons that done the trauma to you they don't have to know that you forgave them you don't have to tell them but if you don't forgive them then you will always constantly think about this trauma if I hadn't come across that key myself I would have killed myself many years ago but I haven't thought of dying in a long time where I used to wish a million times a day every day that I was dead and it was coming to a point to where I was going to make it happen needless to say I've been alone my entire life oh I've had a girlfriend here and there even lived with one for three years the longest argument I've ever been in it lasted three years that was the longest relationship I've ever had also it don't get any easier being alone it got to the point where I really didn't want anything from anybody except companionship someone to talk to when you are isolated I mean truly isolated to where you don't see or hear another human voice or another person for six to eight weeks at a Time I couldn't go anywhere because of the isolated place no one can come and visit me because it's so hard to get to even if they wanted to come and visit me and then the power company turned the power off so now what took my mind off of the past watching television and movies I had nothing now let me tell you being alone with nothing to occupy your mind except for your own mind is very dangerous for you. see I've also had my best friend kill himself practically in front of me playing Russian roulette and suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem it's easy to die it's hard to live its very very hard to live... AloneYou know how men and women husbands and wives boyfriend and girlfriend will get into arguments and fights and some of those arguments and fights will get really out of hand and get physical well what I've been through I don't think that I will ever raise my voice at someone that wants to spend time with me and any kind of outburst or anger or hatefulness I wouldn't want to run them off I wouldn't want to even have the slightest chance of making them think of going someplace else and that's only for a person that wants to sit around and carry on a meaningful conversation with me what would I do for someone that would share their love with me I would fight to my dying breath for them because there's nothing worse than being alone and lonely you can be around 100 people and still be lonely but alone is alone that's why they call it alone there's no one else around, take my advice do everything that you can do everything possible to find you someone that you can love someone that will be your best friend because think about it you don't want to hurt your best friend in any way and you always tell your best friend everything so if your best friend was the opposite sex and you told each other everything and kept no secrets that's the best love find your best friend and treat them like that's the last person in the world that you're ever going to be with... Because it very well could be

Wedimir · Accepted Answer

Man is social by nature. Not only that he is also a half) That is, he needs not only a society but also a half) Scientists have proved that in a city of 300,000 people, each person is suitable for about 10,000 partners in all indicators! Why are we alone? This is our mind, only it is to blame. It's not that, it's not that. Ugly, not rich, not tall, bad in bed, bad in communication, bad kisser, smells.. try to fulfill all the conditions of the mind? Unreal!))) And those who understand that the mind must be reined in and controlled have long been married or have as many partners as they want.. easy!

JackSmy · Answer

Sometimes it is a nice break, and it makes me wonder if maybe I could be a better man, and learn a lot of things, during that time. Maybe learning how to cook better, or speak another language, or learn some skills, to get a raise, or advance my career.
Sometimes, like now, I need the break, because of personal medical issues.

jshm2 · Answer

Never really been single in my life. So cannot relate.

But from friends who are in your position, it's probably your habits and personality more than your looks and location.

Get yourself a better circle of friends and meet better people. The people you have now are obviously not helping.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Who isen't?

Men and women were created to be together and to live together...

I prefer to be married and accept everything that comes with it on being single and lonely!

I just wanna find the right one who will be my sweet housewife forever 😊

Cellestial · Answer

I want a girl in my life, it's not out of boredom because I can handle it, not because of physical need (part of it actually) but I feel like I just need the presence of a female in my life. I think it's the call of nature, it's about time to start thinking about having a small family and making babies lol

Anonymous · Answer

I'm bored of being single and I'm in my late 30s and I have never been On a date or even had a relationship. I'm always constantly getting rejected and no women has given me a chance and I always getting scammed online. So Im just waiting on faith to introduce me to someone and I just say to myself if it would it will happen. I'm still waiting for someone to say that they like me for me and want to date me.

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

I yearn for love (and sex xd). I feel completely ready to begin that phase of my life where I at least meet my destined partner. But I know it'll all come in God's' perfect timing.

SunnySri · Answer

Not yet mam, I think I would prefer to stay single than being hasty and ending with someone who is not right for me.

winterfox10 · Answer

I'm tired of it too. I'm sort of emotionally paralyzed at the moment though. I can't bring myself to get back out to the dating scene, but I want to find love.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

If you are bored feel free to cut a hole in your pocket so you have something to play with. On the other hand I really enjoy being single & if I happen to meet a lucky lady may the devil help her because bored we will never be.

AlexDeLarge · Answer

So sick of it. I know so many beautiful single women but there's nothing happening there. There's mutual attraction with some but covid just keeps everyone afraid. Fucking pandemic 😡

Justneedtokno · Answer

Yep, sometimes you just want to cuddle up to someone.

Paulychicago10 · Answer

Of course I am. Would be nice to feel some support from someone besides myself. Someone I can support too. Oh well.

flashgrandad · Answer

We all go through trauma in life sweetheart. Maybe you need to spend time weighing up you options, maybe get chatting online to someone and get the important questions out of the way?

chriscdi · Answer

kinda, only when i got nothing to do but think, normally my life chillin being single tho tbh

JPrez · Answer

I know this sounds odd but lower your standards some and maybe allow for some less attractive guys to talk with you.

ThomasTKay · Answer

I feel the exact same way you do. And I just want someone real and kind. Not a model or a makeup queen, just a normal down to earth woman.

laurieluvsit · Answer

My heart was shattered 5 years ago when I lost my dream boy but I have figured out what to do to keep my mind and body occupied until the next one shows up :)

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Yes I'm definitely bored this single shit is overrated

Shamalien · Answer

Yeah but not so bored that I’ll date the wrong person. Be patient :)

GhostMochi · Answer

If I could find a good guy and not a douche bag, yeah probably

ibnenaseer · Answer

Ah yeah!
I'm sometimes feel free to be as single but sometimes it feels really bad that why don't I have someone special!
I really need a true love.
Sometimes I think to give it a try online. But I didn't find there too 😅

Dave31989 · Answer

like what poor baby. what happened that was, "oh so bad"

msc545 · Answer

Quite bored of it but it's still better than having to cope with some toxic bitch...

GoodManDave · Answer

Yes, been tired of it for a while. I've been single for way too long.

KingDio · Answer

Yes and no... i miss the company of another here with me

FakeNIK · Answer

Well good things take time.. meanwhile try to improve yourself try something which you truly like... for me it's... exercise, reading, designing etc..

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I am bored and looking for a serious girlfriend nowadays I want something serious now as I am single too :)

okayTaco · Answer

Yes single since I was born I’m really get used to it :”)

Shy_Steve · Answer

I hate being single and it's nice to hear a Girl say that as well.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

More like lonely, if I allow myself to feel emotions. Most of the time I dont.

serious · Answer

I can only wish you best of luck in doing so.

ohshee · Answer

Yes I think I am no I know I am damn

fonduegirl · Answer

Do you think you're missing company DUE to trauma?

belle_kai · Answer

At times yes, more so because of the pandemic

Anonymous · Answer

I am tired and got a wrong love and I regretted wanting a relationship once am so happy being single

ColHathi · Answer

There's something other than being single? 🤔

magiusX26 · Answer

what is your age range for a guy to date?

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

XD... this post... GOLD... but i'll have to hand you, ma'am... a RED FLAG

bannacookies · Answer

Single pringles are fun and cool.

mrgspoter · Answer

I do kind of hurts time to time

humanearth · Answer

Yes thats why I got married in 1995

es20490446e · Answer

Meet people, in real life, as friends.

COMMODOREII · Answer

I know what you mean.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah and add to it am a virgin male.

tae_ie · Answer

I’m loving it.

zagor · Answer

C'mon over and we'll have a roll in the hay...

Jamie05rhs · Answer

[raises hand]

B2281 · Answer

Sometimes I do.

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