How can I get a boyfriend if guys don’t like shy quiet girls help?

[Sugar100]

My whole life family would say men want good girls that don’t do drugs , no clubs, no tattoos as wife.

but it seems men don’t like nice good girls. Since girls don’t like nice guys, men don’t like good girls either. Men like party girls with tatoos that curse.

but if I act like a. Bitch men avoid hate me.

so I’m nice cuz I assume if u like a guy u be nice.
but my whole life even tho im shy i approach the guys i like first to talk.
but people say im quiet and nice and pretty. But I have no boyfriend or husband.
if I curse I get laughed at cuz it sounds funny cuz my voice is like a baby too cute.
it’s messed up guys want girls do all talking and they stay silent.
I can’t be dominant as the guys I meet r domainant and don’t let me control them.
only bad girls get good nice guys they can treat bad and the guy do whatever she say.

I have 3 tattoos , being nice and quiet don’t mean a girl won’t kiss hug you , touch you.

[999_________]

FWIW, I think shy quiet girls can be really cute! I'd rather date a "good girl" as you put it, than a "bad girl" or a "party girl".

Most guys would love to be asked out in public (I know I wish girls made the first move) so if you see a guy you think is cute or have a crush on it's always worth a try.

If asking out in public doesn't work, you could try posting online, like on Reddit. Women get WAYYY more responses than men do, because there's more men on there than women.

[Zack-Bann]

Quiet is fine


But being shy is not a personality trait


It’s something you should be working on ending


There’s a popular theory in human evolution that says that all shy people died eventually


Because in times of crisis they couldn’t ask for the right help
And in times of peace they couldn’t procreate


Don’t let that be you
Train your social tolerance to stop being shy

[StephanieChick111]

I am quiet good girl and I have a good boyfriend. Maybe you just need to smile and say hi to any guy you like. Good luck.

[slatyb]

Stop listening to them and live your life as you please. If you want attention, you are going to have to go somewhere you can meet single men. Suggestions: outdoor activity groups -- hiking, biking, skiing, sailing or paddling; community musical groups -- orchestra or band if you play an instrument, otherwise choirs if you can sing at all; charities like Habitat for Humanity; dance meetups for swing or salsa or any other couples dance form; groups for board games, chess, etc.

[Nice222]

Perhaps you are looking in all the wrong places. I would suggest getting involved with community groups or local volunteer groups. In these type of organizations you will find good people that are interested in being good people. Not all of them are going to be single or looking for a relationship. But they will be good people.

[Sugar100]

I was talking to a church guy on a. Church Christian dating app and since I said I’m quiet and nice I think he unmatched me.

[Sugar100]

No guy will be my husband cuz I’m quiet I’m scared now 😓 I do talk , I don’t know what else I’m supposed to do. Men want be mute and have girl talk 24/7 like a robot?

[Sugar100]

I don’t want a mute guy either.

[DJB72]

You're looking in the wrong place

[Jennz6]

Keep trying girl

[fish5505_87]

I wouldn't say that's true as a guy!

[Sugar100]

I’m not seeing many guys commenting saying they do like quiet girls

[999_________]

I do