Why do people tell me that guys don’t like me because I’m quiet?

[Burgundydog21]

I’ve been rejected most of the time and others say that it’s because I’m quiet. guys tell me that I’m fine it’s just they don’t want a relationship but then dates other girls

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1 mo

I’ve been told that I’m attractive but always wondered why they don’t like me. They usually just want to hook up. I’ve compared myself to other girls because they seem to get the guy they like while I struggle with rejection. Someone told that it’s also because I dress too masculine such as wearing t shirts and not wearing feminine tops.

[Finchie40]

Maybe your quietness caused you to get a bad reputation by not speaking up for yourself , you said. Most guys’ you meet just want to hook up with you but don’t want a relationship with you , that’s probably because you probably got a reputation that you are unaware of . Sadly most quiet people get a reputation , because they don’t speak up for themselves , so people just assume they are quiet because they are hiding something , or they assume that person is up to no good. I have some quiet friends that I hear so much garbage and gossip. about behind their backs , basically things that our out of line about who they truly are as a person. Most people just assume the worst case scenario. when it comes to quiet people. Why it’s best for you to speak up and stand your ground and do not let anyone walk over you or assume you are this bad person , when really you aren’t. We live in a judgmental world filled with people talking shit on each other behind each others’ backs , just the way this society is and sadly it will never change because we as people Can not all be on the same page with things with each other , you also might have a resting bitch face that you are unaware that you have , and since you are quiet people are easily going to assume the worst case scenario with you because sadly you probably look like a bitch without realizing you look like one. I hope I didn’t offend you in anyway , just giving you advice based off of my experiences with quiet people that get judged and ridiculed for being quiet. Understand when us guys’ see a beautiful girl our intentions is to have her in our arms , if she is quiet and doesn’t speak up for herself , we assume we can lighten her up and have our way with her without really getting to know her. We just assume she just wants our cock inside of her and nothing else because she is quiet and think she probably does this to every guy she meets. Why communication is important in relationships, speak up for yourself and let people know what you really want. We aren’t mind readers

[molonski2]

I always really liked quiet girls when I was in my 20s , and your update says you are " swayyyy maak maak " = very attractive , so I dont know why they are not asking you out , if I were the correct age , and in the right location , you'd be the one I'd be trying to take out.

[ProbablyClueless]

They're trying to tell you that the reason men don't want to date you is because you don't make any effort to express who you are as a person. You don't make people feel like you want to connect with them.

[Berethor]

Well quiet girls tend to be good girls, but it's harder to talk to them in the beginning.

[John_Cobretti]

Guys love quiet girls, some extrovert chatterboxes can't cope with that

[Iron_Man]

You know yourself better than I know you or anybody else on here you tell us

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

Question is how do we know when you are naked in our hearts 💕 and are not going to be stressed about the time you spend?

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Because they are right.