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Why would people in workplace flirt/pushing people into a relationship?

these type of things keep happening to me.


Okay here s what happened:

i ve been working in this company for around a year. When i first got here there s a guy (i would call him A) in finance department, a manager, and the boss s brother.

there s a HR , really like gossiping, keeps telling me to consider dating A. I was like “ i dont know him at all” then she even started thinking about planing on a hangout/event. I casually rejected.

One time we were in a Christmas party at the office. He did sths and said something that made others thought he was defending me. Then the people started smiling at me.

but i dont think i can date people from my workplace. It might turn into nightmares… or it could be a trap so they can make fun of me. I dont even know if A just plays along.

I ignored them for months. Then they started calling me arrogant / waiting for people to chase. I was pissed but i didn't want to offend them i want to fit in “in peace “so i told them i reached out to a speed dating company. They have stopped.

RECENTLY THEY STARTED IT AGAIN. And one person sent me pic of him talking to another girl told me to make a move or else it will be too late. I was little bit sad at the beginning but now i m alright.

Crazy Enough. There s another guy called B, also from finance department. HE IS MARRIED but he sent me gift and waited til i got off from work. WTFFFF. Luckily i managed to get rid of this shit.
(i m not that attractive i guess they think i look like” a submissive women” or “easily control “ 🤮🤮so they did that. “

Recently i m thinking about looking for another job. I hate troubles but the job market sucks.

I m just here wondering Do these things usually happen?
Once my friend even asked me the same question “why these things follow u.. “

what would u do if u were me?

Why would people in workplace flirt/pushing people into a relationship?
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