A lot of women are afraid of a good thing?

[Anonymous]

If they weren’t, why all the casual flings? Eventually they’ll say “I’m ready for something serious” followed by MORE time where they still neglect the serious options they have.

Either they just really think they can do better, or they aren’t willing to put in the work to actually bring out the qualities within these options and put in the time for them to blossom and that serious relationship to flourish. WHICH still ends up meaning that they aren’t actually ready.

They just want the perfect guy to come and sweep them off their feet and I don't know how that even happens in 2025 (almost 2026 now). All women are looking for like a <1% percentile of man. Let’s not account for what modern feminism has done to men as well. We make less money and compete for less jobs because now women are working more in professional environments.

So with that said, there are less men in more leveraged positions over women, in society, where they can lead the way and she looks up to him to support her and a potential family. Women have to be willing to start looking at these facts. There’s just not the level of respect in men that there should be. A good man is right there for the taking a lot of times and they always want better.

So what is really happening here?

[Summeroflove]

People who have casual hookups aren’t long term relationship material for someone who wants anything serious. Let these women (and men) get the kind of people they deserve. They will either repent of it and grow to regret their past choices or double down and make a mess of their lives.

A lot of times with casuals one person becomes way more attached then the other. It is sometimes the man and other times the woman. People who have casual relationships are people who… are lazy. Don’t want to put the work and effort into a real relationship as well as have slept around so much that they get bored and typically cheat.

Not all women are like this. It’s narcissists who get bitter because the kind of men they want won’t talk to them and they’re stuck with the men on one extreme who are players and fuckboys. As well as the other who are desperate and creeps and weirdos.

[Anonymous]

Notice all the women being critical of you here are anonymous? Because they want to punch and run. Their entire life is disappointment. I promise you they are not happy.😆

[Asker]

Yes. Most women are miserable and so they project it onto men to feel better about themselves. They don’t want to face reality. That’s almost the entire point if my question. Ask them a hard question. What is really happening here HMM? 🤔🤔

[Anonymous]

Your personal experience of women not wanting to date you is your problem. For the majority of men, they have no issue getting a girl.

This is a YOU problem.

[Anonymous]

But that is all on you?

[Asker]

What do you mean? As a guy I can only do the best that I can, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t clearly some systemic things working against us (that women seem to be frankly, naive to).

They all seem to want prince charming to come like it used to be in the 1950’s or some shit but you don’t want to come to terms that that just doesn’t exist anymore. Not to mention, a lot of men don’t actually like how women are these days either. Vulgar, masculine, promiscuous. Not lady-like at all. But women don’t want to acknowledge any of this. Don’t shoot the messenger either, I’m just saying.