Well.. in my past experience I have had a lot of men think that I liked them as something more than a friend simply because I am a friendly person. I smile at every one and am nice to everyone and that makes some guys think I am flirting or something and then I'm the jerk in the end because they thought that smiling and interacting in a normal way was flirting just cause I'm a girl. And not a single girl.
Bowling/movies/ANYTHING has to be with a group if it's gonna be JUST FRIENDS. After a few group outtings as just friends she will be more likely to believe that maybe you don't have other motives. But, it seems like you want to date her. If you want a relationship beyond friendship she can probably tell that you are wanting something that she is not wanting.
As a woman in a relationship I can tell you it is hard to have male friends because they always end up crossing that line. Even my boyfriends friend's have said some uncomfortable things to me. All males cross it, it's inevitable. Or they get mad cause even though I have no intention of ever dating them, they think they are the "back up" guy for if I break up with my boyfriend.. which isn't ever going to happen. So after having a lot of guys try to cross that line she may just be cautious like I am.
And I can promise you that it isn't because of your job. I don't think there are that many people out there that are going to not be friends with some one because of their job.. unless they are doing something illegal or stripping for a living. I wouldn't be friends with people like that..
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About the first girl, you asking her bowling just the 2 of you is not " just as friends" in her mind and ultimately it's not in your mind either. Eventually you want something to come out of it. If you guys talk a lot there is a chance that she likes you but make sure there are other signs like eye-contact, flirting, smiling between you. She will give you little signs if she is interested. So maybe you asked her out once and she said she was busy maybe she was just busy. It doesn't hurt to try again. In most girls minds it is the guys job to make the moves and do the work it's just the way it is. If you work with maybe this next time ask her to go to lunch with you say it's better than going alone. Start with little things and grow attraction. Sometimes full blown dates to bowling with a guy you barely know can be nerveracking for a girl. Just in general also be confident in yourself. If those girls don't say hi say what's up ( name) and move on with your day. If they don't have manners they aren't worth your time and that's the attitude you should have all at the same time remaining well-manner of course.
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