Was led on by a girl who's married, but when I confessed my feelings she denied. I'm casually dating someone else but I still think about her. Advice?

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This girl was a good friend of mine. She was clearly leading me on. All my friends (men and women) felt the same too. After some point once I started feeling the same way I started dropping hints. She didn't back off or cut me off. She still kept engaging. It reached a point where I finally confessed. I was apprehensive coz I of course understand she's married, but I presumed something might not be right with their marriage. She obviously denied anything after I confessed. But things got awkward between us after that and communication just fizzled out. It's been a while since I spoke to her.

I've been casually dating someone else. She doesn't know that. But I still think about her. We do follow each other on Instagram but I had muted her as a measure for myself to move on. But whenever I post some stories on Instagram she's one of the first one's to view all the fucking time. Like why is she still checking on me. She doesn't like my posts or stories or anything, but is still constantly observing in my opinion. I know she's married and there's nothing much I can do unless if she opens up and tells me something. I don't feel the same way about the current girl that I'm casually dating. (Yes the current one knows nothing serious is gonna happen between us and is cool with it. So it's not like I'm cheating on her). So even though it's been months since we stopped talking I'm just not able to get over her. Please any advice would be really helpful!

Was led on by a girl who's married, but when I confessed my feelings she denied. I'm casually dating someone else but I still think about her. Advice?
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