Is it normal to still be in love with someone who's intersex?

[Anonymous]

This lady I'm dating is actually intersex, she was honest and upfront with me about it. She said a lot of other guys freaked out and didn't want anything to do with her when finding out, but I still love and care about her, and can even see myself spending the rest of my life with her.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Yes, it’s completely normal.

Being intersex doesn’t make someone less lovable, less real, or less of a partner.

If anything, the fact that she trusted you enough to be honest says a lot about the connection you two have.

What matters in a relationship is the person, their heart, their character, the way they treat you, and the life you can build together.

Not the label attached to their biology.

If you love her, you love her.

That’s not strange, that’s just genuine.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Why would it be a problem? If you love her then who cares about her plumbing configuration? The only thing id say you might want to have a conversation about is if she is able to bear children if that is important to you. If it isn't or you are ok with adopting if things work out then I say go for it.

[Asker]

I don't believe she can, but that's not important to me. I was surprised I was still drawn to her because I don't like guys in that way, but she's still very beautiful to me and looks feminine enough, she just has some male chromosomes, some testosterone, and of course some extra plumbing.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Well, just treat her like she identifies. It sounds like she is a woman so don't refer to her as a guy. It's not like she chose to ve intersex. It's cool you can accept her as is though.

[Anonymous]

Already moved on from the Indian woman from yesterday? You sure do plow right through them.

[Asker]

What Indian woman?