Would you ever be in a romantic relationship with someone who is trans?

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This is a controversial question, and therefore a risk. I support the trans community, and I ask this purely out of curiosity. Please message me privately if this question offends you (I will take it down).

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

God no. Why? Because transgendered people creep me the out to be perfectly honest. I know that’s not the popular thing to say, or the politically correct thing to say, but I don’t care. I don’t have to like them or what they do.

Yes, I’ve known trans people. More than one. And hung out with them. On more than one occasion. I can treat someone decently and with respect and still be inwardly disgusted with them and in awe of the profundity of their mental illness. This doesn’t keep me from talking with them about music or Netflix at a barbecue, but I could never be with someone so delusional that they play dress up and mutilate their bodies in some quest to be something that they never can truly be.

kattman · Accepted Answer

Absolutely. They are just as human as anyone else, and probably want to be loved just as much. I have a partner that is trans masc. He is so awesome.

XXblack88 · Accepted Answer

No I would not romantic be in a relationship with a trans person. There are two reasons why I wouldn't be in a romantic relationship with a trans person 1 is most trans people won't tell the person they are dating that they're trans not giving that person the opportunity to have a say in whether they are or aren't ok with dating a trans.2 is If I'm in a romantic relationship with a guy I want that guy too be a biological male not someone who was born a girl who decided to transition later in life.

sheikalana · Accepted Answer

If I was single and met someone with whom I had a great connection with I would probably date them but I'm currently married so no.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Hell Fucking No! I am 100% heterosexual and I am not dating a boy who is pretending to be a girl.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope.
As a straight male, I have zero interest in cock (even if it is pushed up inside), I have a biological desire to procreate and require my partner to have female chromosomes, female reproductive organs, and real female genitals.

For those who claim a persons genitals should not matter... are full of shit or filled with the same mental illness as those who claim to be “panda kin” or the other endless “genders”

Those people would not date a person with down syndrome or leprosy... I mean why not... it shouldn’t matter what someones disorder is, right?

They wouldn’t date a murderer or a pedofile would they? I mean it shouldn’t matter what the persons personality is, right?

What about dating an animal? Should it matter what a creatures species is?

How about someone who has sever schizophrenia or a cannibal? Should mental state matter?

MCheetah · Answer

No, because I'm not attracted to men, or to women who live pretending to be men. I'd be friends with a transperson, if they are actually nice and respectful (few trans people I've met are; most seem to be entitled pricks who want the world to kiss their asses and will cry out "transphobe" if you don't), but I can't/won't date a man.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I would be friends with them, but I highly doubt I would ever be in a romantic relationship with one.

I date so that I can find a good man, who I can marry and have children with in future, for this I need a man with X and Y chromosomes.

If I ever decide I don’t want children, which I doubt because I want my genes to be passed on, I would maybe not care as long as I like the person, but it is unlikely.

DizzyDesii · Answer

No i prefer to date a male who was born a male and has male genitals. If i dated someone who was born female, that would make me homosexual and I am not. I am happily straight and prefer to date someone who is also straight. I personally feel anyone who is crossdressing or not straight is dazed and confused, possibly following a trend, but that is up to them to stay in wonderland if they please. I will remain cordial and stick to my close-minded corner

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

Why are you so afraid of the trans activists coming after you? I'm so tired of everyone being such scared cowards when it comes to this issue. It's not controversial; if you're a heterosexual man you will not be interested in a man, who claims he's a woman; nor would a heterosexual woman be interested in a woman who cuts her hair short, and wears "guy clothes."
The answer for me, is hell no.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I don't understand why it has to be a controversial question. It's only a yes or no answer.
I understand that people grow up believing they are the wrong gender, and if they wish to change it, then live and let live is my motto. However, that does not mean I wish to be involved with someone who was something and is now something else.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

No way. A trans woman, for example, is not a real woman at all; but a fraud, a pervert, and an impostor. Such a person would be nothing but an intruder into my home. If you meet an intruder in your home, the natural response is, not to welcome him with open arms, but to do whatever is necessary to safeguard your life and property.

MrOracle · Answer

No. I am straight and only have romantic or sexual interest in genetic females who identify as female.

I don't care what others choose to do - date any adult who will have you - but I am not obligated to be attracted to men just because they dress up as women or feel like one.

CoffeeBeanBlack · Answer

Not particularly interested. Nonbinary people can fall under the crowd and if I find a NB person attractive I wouldn't decline to dating them. It would be weird having to tell people that I'm not as heterosexual as I thought but thats the only way that I know for sure that id date a person thats under the trans gender umbrella

Shamalien · Answer

Not in a million years. I try to avoid people who self harm, and although everyone self harms a bit, trans is way too far. Bodily mutilation? I’m not even a fan of tattoos and piercings let alone this. I want me a natural woman who can bear children and who is actually female, with a female brain and body, not some mr potato head slapped on frankenpussy

Smile_empty_soul · Answer

No. And here is why. I like most straight men want children that are biologically ours. Not only biologically ours but biologically the person we are with as well. Dating a trans person is the same as dating a gay person. Its a Darwinian dead end. Meaning its a union that at its core cannot produce children. From my point of view, besides the fact that I'm not gay, A romantic relationship that cannot produce children is a waste of time.

StrawberryShake · Answer

Why would this offend anyone? Lmao it's literally a serious question... My answer is possibly.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Not long term as I want to have children with the man I marry. Biological children. I wouldn't mind being friends though or hanging out.

DaveJord · Answer

Nope, I am Pro- hetero man, therefore I am only interest in real biological women. Morally opposed to Trans. Think its a mental health issue and/or people who are insecure about gender are unattractive to me.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.

Rizwan_khan · Answer

No i never have been in relationship with trans and it hink i never would.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

Absolutely, yes.

I'm bisexual, and define it as being attracted to genders both my own and not my own - meaning I'm open to enbies, too.

Trans women are women, trans men are men. Trans rights are human rights.

LovingLoverReturned · Answer

Knowingly no.
I want someone like myself. It's simple. In what sense? Don't worry about that.

Would they date each other? Some. Maybe happily, maybe grudgingly... Same is with us.
Feelings need no explanation. They are what they are.

SlothySlob · Answer

Controversial question? Nowadays? Hardly. The only thing controversial could be the answers. And by trans, what do you mean. Transsexual or transgender?

BLP11520 · Answer

No, trans people have issues. Mental health issues that for what ever reason are covered up by big tech and the media. Would you date a guy who wore panties, just panties? Panties are more comfortable. Apparently more and more guys are doing it. I do not wear them to look or feel like a woman.

Phoenix98 · Answer

No. As for my reasons I simply don't want to I don't like it, I don't agree with it and I want nothing to do with it.

Lionman95 · Answer

No I´m not sure if I could. I know people will block because of that but I´m not attracted to trans people. They can live their life for sure, but there´s nothing I feel attracted to about them.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Probably not. I could be friends with them if we aligned politically, but romantically would probably be too difficult to get over. If I ever got into a long term relationship I would like the option to have kids.

Maxnanet · Answer

yes, if im in love , why wouldn't i? Lots of people would , i believe , but have just so many prejudice that they would even pass on their soulmate believing its wrong or just not wanting to see it

dolemite89 · Answer

i don’t believe in being mean to trans people or anything but their whole “movement” is such weird nonsense being pushed by liberal arts departs in academia. I believe in biology over making up weird shit to protect mentally ill people’s feelings.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

It would depend on the chemistry, especially if they don't have the parts I particularly like during more intimate moments

CloudMassacre · Answer

I think so yeah, I’m attracted to feminine people mostly

Seinna · Answer

No, because I'm only interested in romantic relationships with straight men.

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

No because they have a dick and the whole gender change is something that can't be just forgotten to me, in my mind they are still a dude

nawtee_me · Answer

Absolutely not because a man is a man no mater how you dress him up... The same for a woman... You can put lipstick on a pig but it is still a pig...

JustinTheGreat · Answer

Yeah sure. I only date men so if they look, sound, and have the body parts of a man, I wouldn’t mind at all

joeldalton · Answer

I'm not gay, so that rules out "trans women" I wouldn't date a fat, hairy woman who cut her tits off, so that rules out "trans men"

GMANN56 · Answer

No. There are too many beautiful women who enjoy being women out there. I don't live a complicated life. I like it that way.

Destiel_24 · Answer

If I love then of course

JohnK123 · Answer

I don't know any trans woman (woman who transferred her bottom part to a male) I don't know if that’s what a trans woman means but yeah lol so If anyone knows one… hahaha

SolitarySolace · Answer

Nah. I prefer actual women. Just not today’s women.

clampfan101 · Answer

Is there any way of saying no to this kind of question without offending anyone? :/

Gflared · Answer

If she has both good looks and personality, why not?

Pete671 · Answer

Yes I have done and would do so again if I liked them as a person,,,,

ImNoOne111 · Answer

I wouldn't. I would become friends but not more than that

Anonymous · Answer

Men love pre-op trans women. They love assholes and dicks, so it’s perfect for them.

Anonymous · Answer

Private message me to chat  I have a partner,  Her name is Ashly Brooke

Anonymous · Answer

I fully respect them and support but I wouldn't. A relationship has a lot of things going on to add some. more drama.

gabby100 · Answer

Could be, depends the person..

WhitneySnow · Answer

Sure. It could happen.

Reijen · Answer

No, because I am not gay.

caitycat21 · Answer

Yeah

Iron_Man · Answer

No I have good high value Christian morals

Anonymous · Answer

No, because I'm not gay.

GrantArmstrong · Answer

I think I could have. Some trans girls are hot.

zagor · Answer

No, but I might accept a BJ after a few drinks.

deshazoj2 · Answer

Yes if we like each other

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

No. Because i'm super straight

Emilyis · Answer

OMG NO!!!

Sabretooth · Answer

sure... trans woman, of course.

Adam1978 · Answer

No I wouldn't.

DevinAM · Answer

Tried that & have no intention of doing it again.

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

cosmicallyinclined · Answer

sure

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