Did it ever change to a public one?
If it ended did it end still being a secret that is still being kept, even though it has ended?
If you've been in one, are you still in one?
When I broke up with my ex girlfriend I didn't want anything to do with any girl that girl has changed me so much I quit communicating the people I just want to work one of them when I finally got her out of my house I could finally start relaxing and coming back to myself about two weeks later on one weekend two of her friends came over separately and one of my friends came over separately they wanted to just check on me see what I was doing and that's we're talkin they wanted me to date them. Or go on a date with them being I said no first of all because I just wasn't myself that me being a smart-ass I said that we could be friends with benefits and every single one of them said yes that I couldn't believe but it was cool and I later found out the reasons why the two of her friends said yes my friend said yes but she was going to school in about a month so she should be moving away but anyway it wasn't really a secret is just nobody else's business and yet nobody ever was told that we were doing this as far as I know
And no that ended quite a while ago it was weird the way everything happened the girl that I had put on an airplane my ex she said she was coming back I said you're not coming to my house and about a week later I had an opportunity to get another house that I really liked and everything just got to fill in place I sold my house within a week and then moved and ended up breaking my phone somehow got another one it just never ever try to get the phone numbers out of it
Yeah I was in a serious relationship with a friends sister.
we kept it quiet as he would have likely killed us both.
it was over a year of sneaking around.
he knew I was going to fetish clubs etc, he just did not know I was taking his sister.
he nearly caught us one time when he came to my house and was with her.
when he realised I had a girl in my room, he was all how far was I going etc (bondage, etc).
Even now he does not know it all, he just thinks we had a very brief holiday romance one time and it was vanilla.
It would have shocked him just how kinky his sis is lol, likely just before he killed me.
Yeah never admittedly to all of it.
Not so fun when your the girl in the room hiding and the guy is out trying to get someone else to leave, who wants to see who you are.
You've been the guy out there trying to get him to go away... must of been scary wondering if he was going to burst in and find out.
@Aerissa_Jade yeah I was bricking it tbh.
We had a number of close calls
Someone mentioned I was in London for a long weekend and as his sis was meeting friends there for shopping, he suggested I showed her around…. She was in reality meeting me to go to a club (Burlesque) and also to a fetish club lol.
I admit to feeling guilty about it, we tried stopping it a few times but it was just so crazy
@Aerissa_Jade thank you for MHG, most appreciated
I once dated a guy from school that had girls more attractive than me chasing after him so I told him to keep us a secret cause I thought girls would try to steal him if they thought their competition was weaker than themselves but we had no shame about each other and would go on public dates where we ran into people from school and said hi and bye to them, it was we tried to be modest about it when we could.
Yes. I had a secret relationship before I met my husband. It was kept a secret for business reasons. Our relationship was a conflict of interest. We dated for a few months and never told anyone.
Those work ones, either with a co-worker or a client or whatever seem kind of common. Hard to say you can't love someone cause of your job.
Thanks
I was the client. lol
Thank you for the MHO ❤
@Guslove I'll take your word for it. 😂
We weren't exactly sneaking around having "quickies". 🤦
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The first 6 months of my last relationship was like that as she was being an over-lapper so her soon to be ex was still at her house, but then only her mum knew then everyone else! It was with a girl I grew up with in my home village which I hadn't been really about much as I had with her for 25yrs I'd left went to uni started my own business etc chased woman took Sundays off chased more woman all the way home it seemed! But drama omg I've never known anything like it! Every other day! I was front page news about everything for an entire year it was getting too much to many noses in our relationship so it just ended a couple of weeks ago! So right now feeling a bit fed up tbh
When I was younger I would secretly meet with boys to do things I didn't want anyone to know about but never a formal relationship, no. Those were always public.
I could never hide anything from my sisters, they are too nosy like me... lol
One of my friends had a secret relationship with a girl who had been trying to fuck me and since i didn't know and literally a few days earlier she said she wanted sex. We were all at his house and he went to take a shit and i locked his door and got very aggressive with her, didn't make it easy for her to talk because i motioned for her to suck my cock. So i got a bj in his bed and when he came back he banged on the door so hard while i was finishing. He seemed really mad but i thought it was because i got a bj on his bed but he hooked up with a girl on the couch i had in my room and its not like he had a couch for me to use.
But he had it as a secret because she just broke up with one of his friends and promised him he wouldn't date her. Smh. I was smart and never wanted to date her since i knew she was a slut. Sluts being sluts.
We were 2 old high school friends. She had a husband. We had great sex but I didn't want her leaving her husband, because he was a good guy. Just he couldnt sexually satisfy her... so I did. She "went to the gym" when she would come over, and even had s friend of hers who worked at the gym that would call her if her husband showed up, which he did twice. She would say she went to get a bite to eat when he showed up. (I would always buy her fast food when she came over so she would have a bag to take with her) Her friend at the gym just thought she was going to the movies to get away from her husband. Never got caught. Just her conscience got to her, and so we mutually stopped it after a year and 3 months.
My first "relationship" was a secret at first. I met him when I was out with my girls and after that I kept him a secret for almost a year. It was on off tho and sometimes not worth mentioning for me, plus my friends interfere a lot! so I didn't wanted them to ruin my experience and honestly looking back, i wished I kept it a secret for longer.
Yes the "relationship" wasn't the best but I learned so much from it and never regretted that experience.
Oh wow, no… well not yet anyway! Now obviously I would never be involved with a married man, nor would I ever be involved with anyone if I were married. So I can’t imagine why I would be involved with someone that had to remain a secret, unless a single man where I worked and I started dating, even though company policy prohibited it!
Yeah, she was one of my closest friends and a coworker. She kept a friendship with my wife to make things "okay" but certain things stayed between us. I was crazy about her. The fact we shared this forbidden feeling made the passion extremely tense. Both of us knew if we said something, it was over. One day I finally told her it had to stop. She immediately quit her job and we stopped all contact. Still hurts...
@maria2716 wow. your questions are very specific.
Kind of. It was mostly not a secret relationship, but we did keep the relationship a secret from our families. We had a major age gap between us (me-40, him-25) and we were really worried they'd disapprove. We eventually did go public to our families with it. They both reacted pretty negatively, but they're happy with the relationship now. We're still together. In fact, I recently found out I have a very surprising (and very happy) pregnancy!
Congratulations!
Yes.. for about two years I was involved with a married woman. The reason it was secret is obvious. It ended because we were nearly caught…but we weren’t. I decided to leave before it became public. It still remains a secret 25 years later.
I dated a co-worker, which was technically against company rules, so we kept it secret for a long time, until we got engaged and let everyone know. All were happy for us. We were married for 20 years before an amicable divorce.
Well, if another knows about the Relationship then it is not secret, right❓
And, if I suffer from multiple identity-personality disorder then Nothing is ever a secret…And forget quite time for self- Selves
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Yes. We dated each other then broke up. But then would still hook up and our group of friends were none the wiser. Whenever we would have a group gathering, a party or camping... we would disappear to showers or between the cars for some action... fond memories... we still talk... but we are 2 time zones away... damnit...
Yes, my ex once wanted to get back together after a break up but we couldn’t tell anyone
His mom found out and she gave him a choice me or her he chose her off course
It was a bit after I had aborted so his mother doesn’t love me like before
I was in one with one of my high school teachers that no one to this day knows about. I've also been in a couple with work colleagues where the employer did not permit dating amongst the staff. I'm happily married to one of them.
Yeah my girlfriend and I have a threesome thing going with a friend of ours.
we would never tell friends or family... at least not right now
Would it still be a secret if I said that I was in a secret relationship?
Sure, no one online would know who you are or anything about it.
Gotcha 💯
Yes I was & it was such a secret I didn’t even know.
A secret one yes, but it's not a romantic or sexual one.
@ChrisMaster69. There actually is some intrigue involved: discreet messages, clandestine rendezvous-vous in places where nobody is likely to know either of us. But it’s an affair of kindness and generosity, not romance. He pays for funeral costs for people he doesn’t know, but wishes to remain anonymous. He’s like a secret Santa that works year round. I give him invoices, he gives me checks.
No This is something that has never come up. I have had feelings for somebody and I kept it a secret.
I was a few years ago. He was taken. I’m no longer in that relationship.
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