girlfriend told her best friend about my secrets?

[Anonymous]

It happened to me, the first time i trusted someone, was my first relationship, and she betrayed me.
I told her my deepest secrets about myself and my family life no one ever knew besides me... and about 2 weeks after telling her i found on her phone how she told her best friend abozt wgat i told her.

Appearantly she wanted to get another opinion on it to understand me even better


But i am incredbly hurt about it... she told something so intimate other people, now i dont know what to do...
I feel betrayed, some people told me i am overreacting and that i should be glad she didn't cheated on me, but i would prefer being cheated on rather then letting my secrets be know by outsiders...

I am fucking hurt now and dont know what to do... she apologized many times but i feel so betrayed
Help...

[markscott]

Whether or not you are over reacting, depends on if you told her not to tell anyone, or she understood not to tell anyone, and it also depends on the content of what you told her. But you did tell her things that were very personal, and she should not have told it to another person. This is a learning situation for you. Do not trust too early. And learn who can keep information to themselves, and who can't.

[Sophie_Mitchell]

Girls tend to do that. They'll tell their best friends literally everything if they know that they're trustworthy. Don't sweat it so long as her friend keeps her mouth shut you're ok.

[Asker]

Hahahaha fuck no! Secrets should be secrets, not even her best friend should know about it. Thisgirl is a terrible human and shoukd just die

[Sophie_Mitchell]

I'm not condoning it I'm just saying it's most girl's hamartia

[Paris13]

Ditch the Bitch... She is Not Worthy of another Word from your Sacred Lips. xx

[Andy1994]

Leave her. You can love someone but if you can't trust them then it won't ever work out

[Asker]

Yeah... right now i feel like trusting is wrong and i should never do it again... because of my family problems i always had trust issues but my girlfriend was the first person i tried to believe and trust completly... now i am broken

[Andy1994]

Take time off to heal bro. Don't rush into anything else

[Asker]

Okay thanks bro i let myself some time to heal... not everyone is such an assholen to tell secrets everyone else...

[Andy1994]

100%. There are good people in the world

[Sweatyotterr]

Break up with her now she obviously doesn't respect you

[boggboss]

Why was u checking her phone sorry?

[Asker]

It happened. She asked to write to her while she was drunk, opened chat, saw a message about me and having baggage asking her why she is even with me. Then confroted her and read through the rest

[Alistayr]

Have you never heard the song, Girls Talk?