My best friend confessed to me that he has a crush on my sister and keeps asking me what she likes etc so he can buy her gifts. Now I've been playing along with it for a while just for a laugh (and because I thought he was taking the piss) but I've just discovered he is dead serious!
The problem is, I don't think he's realised and I certainly haven't told him. My sister... Well she was born male and changed to female when she was in her early 20's
We have accepted her for who she is, we no longer refer to her as Luke, we no longer refer to her as a he. She chose to be a woman as she feels she was born into the wrong body and we respect her decision.
The issue now is, do I tell my friend that she's a transgender male to female or just ignore it? If he figures it out I could argue that I didn't realise and I thought he know but still accepted her for that?
I don't want to destroy our friendship but at the same time, my sister hasn't had a huge amount of surgery so I would have thought he'd have clicked by now that there's next to no cleavage!
What should I do?
The problem is, I don't think he's realised and I certainly haven't told him. My sister... Well she was born male and changed to female when she was in her early 20's
We have accepted her for who she is, we no longer refer to her as Luke, we no longer refer to her as a he. She chose to be a woman as she feels she was born into the wrong body and we respect her decision.
The issue now is, do I tell my friend that she's a transgender male to female or just ignore it? If he figures it out I could argue that I didn't realise and I thought he know but still accepted her for that?
I don't want to destroy our friendship but at the same time, my sister hasn't had a huge amount of surgery so I would have thought he'd have clicked by now that there's next to no cleavage!
What should I do?
