Have you ever had a secret relationship?

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D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

All the ones my wife doesn't know about. ... and she will never know about, because she just bought a bad ass 9mm glock. Anyways it was secret revenge for her own bullshit and it's over now. I needed those secret relationships and flings to get any sense of ego back without fighting fire with fire in her realm of consciousness... which probably would've equaled more bullshit from her side of things instead of taking it as an L, and learning a lesson from it. But yes... many secret relationships. I wouldn't of if she didn't, but that's how it played out.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I've had realtionships with 2 girls simutaneously who never knew of each other. I never misrepresented myself as being exclusive to them although each may have assumed it. I just broke up with one and now have a date with the other Saturday and a new girl on Sunday Again, if they ask if I am dating anyone else I will tell them but they don't ask.

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Isn't that the same as a secret love?

laurieluvsit · Accepted Answer

Yes, when I was younger with bi, or lesbian, curious girls that wanted to experience a lesbian relationship, but didn't want anyone else to know about it.

AmandaYVR · Answer

I've never hid them from friends and family, but work, yes. It's hot. And none of their effing business. Policy or not, idc, so that's why I hid them, but it does make it even hotter. I love self-control on the outside and fire on the inside.

Anonymous · Answer

Currently sort of in one with my boyfriend. Only my mom and two of my good friends know we're together but none of his family really knows or friends. Our love is kind of forbidden sadly until a year from now but our love is so strong and secure it keeps us from breaking down and letting anyone stop us.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I've been in two of them. Now let me make it clear that I wasn't cheating or anything, the girls I was with just wanted to keep the relationship a secret. Which is something I hate and isn't something I will ever do again.

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes, I dated a bi girl that was in a relationship with another girl and she would sneak to come see me , she eventually got busted and we ended the relationship , and she is still with her girlfriend

ArrowheadSW · Answer

When I was in my mid-twenties, I dated a co-worker and she wanted to keep it secret from other employees. It was a disaster and she was awful. I left that job for another as soon as I could.

AzureGirl · Answer

Secret relationship, no. But I’m pretty sure I’ve been a secret friend which probably feels just as weird.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

Nope. Which isn't to say I never cheated on partners, but I've only ever done so on purpose, as a weapon for an act of vengeance and retribution. I've never been unfaithful to my wife, nor will I ever be.

Lovely15678 · Answer

Please explain what you mean by secret. Like an affair or just other people not knowing about it?

Hazelstar · Answer

Yeah, I had once and it drained my energy. I fucking prefer to remain single than in secret relationship because it sucks for me. Never doing that again.

wankiam · Answer

no... all my past relationships relied on at least one other person knowing about it ;)

opnbuk59 · Answer

Joking right, several but it's a secret can't talk about it

Anonymous · Answer

All my relationships have been a secret to others. Only when I'm sure I can trust them would I introduce them to people from my life

Avicenna · Answer

Nope. There were some I didn't tell my family about, but my friends knew

FakeName123 · Answer

I dated a muslim girl while keeping it a secret towards her family.

BuilderMike87 · Answer

No, I have not, yet. However the way things are with my wife I've considered having an affair if the opportunity ever arose.

GuggZ · Answer

I had have and i think will have because unfortunately i feel like i need this. And i had many married girls but i understad that its too bad for them and for me too. Not only for moral. Altho for human being. So i just love the adrenaline in relations so think. Maybe u need more emotions and adrenaline.

Akshayjosh · Answer

Yes she was married already.. and dreamt about having children with me cause her husband was sterile.
I just wanted to fuck her, after some days of enjoying I had to break it up. Cause then she started getting too clingy

okwhynot · Answer

Yes, but then I found out that he was dating another girl so I dumped him

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No. Have you?

arabgoddess · Answer

Are you anticipating to have one?

Anonymous · Answer

I am wondering whether people agreeing so coolly about their secret affair is really true but if it is well i guess i was fun... yes you guessed it right I did not have any secret affair... vote goes to "no"🤫

Bluemax · Answer

Never. Have you, Jean-Marie?

SirRexington · Answer

I had a summer fling with a neighbor no one new about. Well one person knew but she was like a family figure and didn't rat me out.

WonderWoman1989 · Answer

Yes currently in one and only our families know not the public or any of his friends...

RHK36 · Answer

Yes, but I didn't know it was a secret until she told me.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Yes i USe to help people take care of animals an it was a non profit job

simplelikeme · Answer

Nope... don't cheat...

Account · Answer

Nope.

Kay0019 · Answer

Nope but that would be cool i think

QueenOfBaku · Answer

Yes. No one knew about it

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, 3 times. I had to hide it because Im gay

Massageman · Answer

I'll have to check with my hooker ;- )

COMMODOREII · Answer

No i have more respect for myself than to do that.

navyP · Answer

Yes it was kinda awesome for a while

BronzedAdonis · Answer

when I was in the closet, yeah

Manuel2 · Answer

Yes, but it did cause problems when exposed

LilytheHorcrux · Answer

I'm in one right now

koolkal · Answer

No but sometimes I wish I did

Plitty-Tank · Answer

None of my relationships have been a secret.

R_ūshī · Answer

Yeah I have😅

RawIronhide · Answer

Yeah... she doesn't know about it.

spartan55 · Answer

Like, with an invisible girlfriend?

curiosityc0mplex · Answer

Yes I've had 2

Agape93 · Answer

Yeah

Pallavi37 · Answer

Yes I had 3-4

lilyanony1 · Answer

10 years n counting

Reamer · Answer

No I have self respect

WhiteShoulder · Answer

Maybe

Mickey9999 · Answer

Yes. More than once

Anonymous · Answer

A few when they once in the closet.

Ruby3 · Answer

Nope

StarGayle · Answer

Yeah

sonyeklund · Answer

Yes, relationship with my stepsister

brittany23 · Answer

That's a secret

chriscdi · Answer

no and never will

Anonymous · Answer

yes, but I guess the secret is out now...

Gedaria · Answer

Yes , it didn't work out well...

rvarela · Answer

Nope.

yourpsychosuburban · Answer

Yeah

bulletbob555 · Answer

If I told you I wouldn't be a secret

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