Girl I dated brought a lovense device from her purse and asked me if I knew anything about it, at the time I had never seen one... why did she ask?

[Piercejeans1]

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6 mo

OK what the context of this is, is this: I had told her before coming over to my house for the night to bring along any toys that were favorites of hers that she wanted to use. When she took it out of her purse, she did not fill me in on what it was. I examined it and found no buttons or hookups on it, lines in or out. I had never seen one before and had no idea what it was, how it was used, or what the implications were about her having one. So I just gave it back to her and said I had no idea

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6 mo

I suppose the real bottom line question is... was she trying to reveal to me that she was a cam girl. Or did she think if she told me about it that I would think less of her or judge her? Did she bring it along for us to remotely use and play with it? Why would she show it and not tell me about it or suggest using it? So many unanswered questions. It was just... weird.

[SueShe]

What is a "lovense device"?

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[Abbycado]

Sounds like a candle scent for valentine say

[Piercejeans1]

@Abbycado LOL. Yeah exactly. Lovense is actually the company name of the maker of the devices. There are several for women and for men. The one she showed me I think was the "Lush". I think they have a new version and I have no idea how prevalent they are with women in general... you know... out in restaurants waiting for food... bored... and zapping themselves a couple times with their smartphone net connection.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Most likely, she was checking your comfort level.

When someone pulls out a toy like that, it’s not random.

She was testing the vibe, seeing if you’re open minded, if you judge easily, and whether she could be herself around you without it turning awkward.

It wasn’t a quiz about the device,
it was a read on your reaction.

[Piercejeans1]

The reaction that she got from me was... me drawing a blank and being puzzled. If I knew what it was then, I might have had a reaction. I agree she was checking my reaction. I don't know what she took away from the night. Still... wish women would be open. I hate tests. Just tell me what you want and where you are coming from... please.

[Piercejeans1]

so I suppose the reaction she had was... this guy is an idiot. He knows nothing about this stuff. Up to that point all I knew was vibrators women kept in purses and in bedside tables.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Yeah, I get it.

Honestly, she probably wasn’t trying to trick you, more like reading the room, seeing if you were open minded and non judgmental.

Most of the time it’s less about the device itself and more about feeling out if she can be herself around you.

Your reaction probably just told her you were cautious or curious, which is totally fine.

Open communication is ideal, but not everyone is comfortable being that direct right away.”

[In_Trance]

Because she wanted to know if you knew anything about it

[Piercejeans1]

Yes and me like a dummy... knew nothing. So maybe I flunked and was not permitted into the magic chamber of thrills. Whatever answer there is to this... the woman no doubt... wanted some hard core action that night.

[Anonymous]

Because she wants to know what kind of device is that.

[Piercejeans1]

She brought it with her. I thought she found it or something. She said nothing. But now I know she had to have bought it herself, known what it is and how to use it. Only thing I can think of is she is a cam girl or was, and thought that it might change the night if she revealed that. I don't know

[Opinion Owner]

I think you might be right.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO

[katiesmuff]

Seems like it is the replacement for the Egg which had a cord and remote control on it. We girls would stick the egg up in our pussies and be able to control the speed and vibrations with the hand held remote. Used on in high school.

[Nikki1989]

Another one for the “things that never happened” file.

[Abbycado]

What is lovense?

[Piercejeans1]

Lovense is a vibrating device that is sealed, magnetically recharged, and placed inside a woman's vagina for sexual pleasure. It is bought and used by couples or online camgirls for the purpose of remote control of the device by the other person. A boyfriend could use the remote to sexually stimulate his girl. A camgirl uses it in response to tips or tokens offered to her in exchange for being viewed remotely by men or women. The camgirl may or may not be engaged in sexual activity and clothed fully, partially, or fully nude.

[Abbycado]

In that case, the answer to your question is…

I’ll take things that never happened for $500, Alex.

@SueShe

[Piercejeans1]

Another thought is that women could also use it purely for themselves. They may hate wires or lines and prefer to use it privately or publicly without any notice of its existence. They are fairly expensive and come with computer software for different levels and patterns.

[SueShe]

Oh I know those. I come (!) across those a lot lately in my area...

https://ibb.co/cSCw78W7

[Abbycado]

@SueShe I’m laughing like an idiot from that link. My mom has some insanity back in her life for the holiday week with me giggling away.

[SueShe]

Oh well, better giggling than crying all the time. Glad you can clear your tear ducts 😊

[Piercejeans1]

@SueShe LOL Exactly!

[Piercejeans1]

@SueShe LMAO. Exactly. I have yet to find a woman who does not want that. My second ex... the ex stripper / legal secretary... in the middle of intimacy said to me softly... "Pound Me."
Online on several websites I have heard many women express a desire to be... "Intimicied Hard!"
Or destroy my P**** is another popular "expression."

[Pterodon]

She wants you to use it on her

[Piercejeans1]

That would have been great. Why then did she not say so? Or tell me about it? I know now from camsites that all you need to control it is the address and you go to the company website, plug in the device address, and a CONTROL PANEL comes up with literally thousands of options, settings, patterns, etc... which I have used online with a camgirl. And basically the girl looks like she is being electrocuted. And makes a lot of funny squeaky sounds.