How did everyone get so bad at dating?

[animesenpai]

I feel like dating is ass for everyone and all age groups. How did we all get so bad at it. It's like the island of misfit toys out there.

[Anonymous]

We're going through a time a social change and so along with that the dating rules change. Half the women want traditional relationships. The other half want independence. (Understably) both want respect. But both have VERY DIFFERING views on what that is. So men face a moving goalpost when they date. Some guys are inflexible to begin with. But the guys that are flexible recieve mixed messages. As these guys get sent the repeated message that regardless of what they do they are somehow always doing it wrong, they get to the point that they stop giving a 💩. And that's when it gets really bad. Because now you got BOTH genders looking for zero common ground and just trying to exploit the other.

[Summeroflove]

Many people wanting to put zero effort in while someone else does everything. People dating for sex. People dating to validate their egos. Not to form genuine connections.

[HighValue]

Moral incompatibility is the main problem. A lot of women's generations of immorality has been exposed and more and more good quality men won't tolerate those kinds of people. Many good men gave up so unless women put in effort and approach the good men and behave fairly, all they are left with most of the time are the players that use them for casual sex and abandon them with multiple kids from multiple different men. Society if mostly fu#k3d.

[Abbycado]

It has not been a problem for me. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[jahaims]

Most humans are idiots.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, never had a date.