Is it just time to move on now?

[Anonymous]

I noticed she barely looks my way anymore and yes I never approached her because I just didn’t. But first I was scared to but then I just thought after she already thinks I’m not confident so what’s the point. I don’t get why continue to stare if you’re over it and changed your mind about me or found someone else. So I just figured it’s too late and we crossed paths only the two of us and had moments alone multiple times. But I just don’t think it’s worth it I rather save myself the embarrassment or embarrassment of getting ignored.

[HollyK21]

Move on from what? She’s over what? Nothing at all was going on, if anything she may have been observing you observe her, as so many people do once they notice a pattern of someone looking at them. The only thing you’d be moving on from is a crush you won’t act on.

[Asker]

She initiated the whole thing but let you tell it it was all in my head

[HollyK21]

It very well may have been. You created this whole dynamic in your head without a single word of involvement from her, just glances.

[Summeroflove]

Well this happens when someone waits too long someone can loose interest. If she doesn’t have a man that you know of…. Then just ask her out. Worst she can do is reject you. Then you have closure…. And number two you’re not wasting your time on someone whose not into your anyways and is never going to approach you.

If she doesn’t give a direct answer. give her time at that point the balls in her court

[Asker]

Exactly so what’s the point in even trying I didn’t include the part about how I try to say what’s up to her in the hall she just looked at me and I’m unsure if she was just ignoring me letting me know she wasn’t interested or didn’t hear me.

[Jessica405]

Give it a go. Nothing to lose. If you get turned down, go try someone new.

[luvstoned4him]

Depends... do you think you may still have a chance?