Time to move on?

Question

I went on a few dates a lady who is a single mother that is running her own business. She has cray work schedule, and also attending some additional courses. We’ve kissed, and when we talk face to face, the time feels forever even if we cut our meeting short for her to pick up her daughter and so on. I called her once at night, she didn’t pick up. Next morning she told me that she fell asleep. Then we talked on phone a couple of days later, and she was laughing, and I was laughing having a good conversation (at least it felt to me that way). At the end of the conversation, she told me that she would call me, but that is yet to happen. I have sent her texts few times, but the only responses that I could get out of her was she liking my messages or emojis. OK. I am not good at texting…and boy oh boy, I either sound super distant or super clingy reading back. I haven’t called her again since we spoke last (will try later tonight), but I have this sinking feeling that it’s time for me to just move on. I’m being naive here, but I’m old enough to understand and accept the fact if she thinks that this isn’t working out for her…but should I just move on? (Though I would appreciate some honesty from her but oh well…)

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

If there has ever been a dynamic with an individual and coupled Vision and Worldview needing to be addressed, plan, and formally written, this is one.

You are at best tied for Tertiary standing. Accept or get out her way as your Exasperation Value will exceed your Positive/Asset Value. Are you deaf and blind to fact that this relationship is not Primarily about you in anyway.

Firstly, there is Child followed closely by Business. Tied and in constant flux is "husband and advanced education" Development. Both are a desired "fit into Design" want, however, ultimately not necessary. If sliding into Fatherhood, Supporting backbone and complimentary piece into Power couple is not your thing then get out of her way.

Family, Child, Business yield Status and varying intra and extra Power standing which are all necessary. Leading is not always fro Presidential or Front End position. A synthesizing administrator makes it run.

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

Time to move on. You’ll never get what you want from her.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

She is running her own business according to your statement and that may be the reason, in addition to having a child that she feels a little distant to you. You don't tell u how old that child is and if she/he is going to kindergarten, school or if that child requires more attention.

That would be a reason for her to put you on the backburner and not to give you the entire attention you are expecting.

However, my feeling is that she is probably distancing herself because she realized that you may not be as compatible as she thought.

I would suggest that you wait for her to make the next move and if nothing happens, then you should realize that the entire date and kissing was merely a "get to know you" situation and that you should probably move on.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not trying to be rude but you are a young men 35.. still find a women who’s single and no kids give it a try to start your life fresh and easy
Why make your life difficult.. I’m sure there are women out there as me 30 looking for 30-35 old men who wants no kids single women!
I get it love is love but without starting the relationship properly your life is HECTIC
Because you chose it that way..