My friend has been living with me for 3 months and I have been doing everything to make her feel at home.
But I work most of the time so I rent a small apartment because I don’t spend much time there, only come home at around 9 o’clock.
And leave every morning every day.
I do have fun with her and I want to be friends with her, she can stay with me even for a week a month, but it’s just too much. She spends more time at my home than I do, she wears my clothes, because she feels at home, she spends more time here and it’s like more of her home than mine. I feel like I am a guest at my own home.
When I come home she keeps talking and doesn’t give me any me time, I have to go lock myself in a toilet to avoid talking to her. She never stops talkimg, yes sometimes it’s fun and interesting but I am really annoyed already. I come home tired and as if it’s my 2nd job to listen to her.
Plus she is really unstable, she has her great sides but I am so annoyed already because I’ve been living in discomfort for the past 3 months and she doesn’t feel like getting a stable job and getting her own fricking apartment. I’ve been living alone since 20, why should I tolerate this?
Even with my ex fiancé I had rented 2 floors house so I could have some me time.
In the beginning our friendship was more of symbiosis because we both benefited, but now it’s parasitic, she is the one benefitting and I can’t even walk naked at my own home.