Last year my ex boyfriend of 3 years broke up w me. A few months ago he asked to be friends and I finally agreed to try a friendship. Problem is, although he has a girlfriend, we eventually slept together, he would take me out, stay over, etc.. Last month I cut him off because I felt guilty about we were doing.
The point is, I'm moving to another state next month & I don't know if I should agree to see him before I go. He wants to take me out as a happy bday/going away gesture. The move is permanent so I won't be returning. I told him to give me time to decide if I want to see him. Should I leave without saying goodbye?
Most Helpful Guy
He was cheating on his girlfriend with you. I don't know what you guys had before, but he is obviously not trust worthy. Who's to say he never cheated on you
I would not give him the courtesy of a farewell/goodbye because it sounds like he doesn't actually care about you, but was just using you for sex.0
Most Helpful Girl
What will you regret more, not meeting him and always wondering if you should have? or meeting him and it not being what you want? You've already been strong enough to break it off with him, its up to you if you think you can get through a dinner without it messing up your head.0