Single people, how many people do you talk to at once?

[Simslover92]

[Summeroflove]

When I’m single I talk to who I’m interested in. Some people will only talk to one person at a time even if they’re not committed. Others can be taking to 100s now people talking to lots of people are usually doing it to validate their egos and for attention. As well as see their options. Have fall back plans… yada yada. Most of them aren’t really looking for anything or don’t really find anyone that amusing or they wouldn’t be taking to so many.

Generally, I talk maybe a few people at most until I start loosing interest in some and others loose interest in me. That narrows it down.

[Still-alive]

Usually just one, however im not opposed to talking to multiple at one time until i get serious with one of them. To me it is a numbers game, meeting many people until you just find one you feel fits you the best.

[Simslover92]

Right it is.

[Beckybooboo]

If I'm single but am interested in one person, I pretty much only talk to him in social situations but of course I'm gonna casually talk to other single people, just don't spend a lot of time with them. I rarely talked to single guys on the phone if I had my 👀 on someone, I never wanted him to get the wrong impression.

[lilBigPotato]

As long as I'm not properly dating someone long term I'm just going with the flow. Not setting myself any restrictions.

Once someone managed to get me properly interested after a few dates I like to give them my full focus, no more playing around with others

[MrOracle]

I'm not single but when I was, it was never more than one at a time. I've never lived my life for chasing women, so I never spent the amount of energy on them that is necessary to balance more than one. You have to have a fairly easy job and lots of free, completely unencumbered time to do that, and I've always had too much responsibilities to be able to do that.

Besides, one quality relationship is FAR better than a bunch of juggling and one night stands. But some people live for the hunt and not for the relationship - that's just not me.

[HawkPerception]

Most I've ever "talked to" was 3 at once. Once I get physical with any of them, I stop talking with the others. 3 is nothing for a lot of people, especially girls who tend to have a roster of men lined up.

[Finchie40]

A handful or more , when you are single their isn’t any limits

[FunkyMonkee]

As of the past couple weeks, none!
I USED to talk to my girlfriend every day then, she was having a minor medical issue and needed to stay offline for a while. After that blew over, she let me know but still wasn't feeling well and needed more time. Then, a week ago, she just stopped talking to me at all!! I have no idea why! Is she ill? Is she dead? Is there someone else, now? And, because I can't get a fucking SIM card for my phone, I can't even call her to find out what's going on!!!

[Simslover92]

I'm so sorry

[FunkyMonkee]

Thank you! She could at least let me know she's okay.

[Simslover92]

Yes indeed she could have.

[Abbycado]

Not single. Did only one person when I was, both times.

[Simslover92]

Oh ok thanks Abby!

[Abbycado]

You bet, hun. 💕

[sage2021]

You should ask the married people this question.
They not only have someone living with them but they message 3-4 guys.

My answer is one right now.

[HighValue]

If I was talking to someone, once it got to the point that we made plans to meet in person, I wouldn't be talking with anyone else until I seen how things went with the first girl, then I'd either stay exclusive or end it.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Depends on the connection and energy.

I focus on quality over quantity.

Talking to a few people at once can be fun, but too many at the same time just becomes noise.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Like 5 people but I don't talk to them all at the same time, i reply when I can and reply back when they reply to me and none of them am I doing anything sketchy with, I'm friends with everyone until changes happen if they ever will.

[OneViewpoint]

Talk to? Unlimited. I'll talk to anyone. Flirt or date? One at a time. It can be exhausting and I'm not into drama. I can play clueless really well if a woman turns it flirty.

[WonderingManII]

I would talk to as many single women as I could. But it hasn't been like that for me in years! I used to just go to chatrooms and meet women there, and carry on several conversations at once. Now I'm lucky to have one conversation.

[melanieeeB]

When I was single, I used to talk to one person after another. It's too exhausting talking to multiple people at once

[dislikesmath]

Good question I attract a lot of girls for some reason even with out pics the most 4 every year.

[Twodogs0525]

If you mean people I see as a possible partner, only one. I talk to several singles until I meet the one I really feel a connection with.

[TonyMetal___86]

If you mean by random people, many!
If i'm going to date someone than just one!

[Simslover92]

Ok thanks!

[TonyMetal___86]

You're welcome

[Spencer10]

I choose wisely. Generally people who are interesting and have something interesting to say... so its maybe 10 tops.

[YourExLover69]

Around 2-3 maximum. I'm currently single but regularly I don't talk or chat with even 1 nowadays 😒

[pookipoo600p]

2 or 3 women. There aren't THAT many like-minded people I have that much in common with so 3 is a good number to feel like I'm not putting my hopes all on one basket and that I'm making contact with, if nothing else, interesting people.

[LiamJHayden]

I will date multiple women until we have a confirmed commitment to not see others.

[dudeinohio]

When I was single, I only talked to one person at a time.

[Jmmmfi4]

I literally have basically 0 people to talk to no lie

[Darkest-Knight]

I don't talk to anyone.

[Anonymous]

3-4, sometimes more, sometimes less.

[Gagforlifetime]

Only to someone if I am interested

[AValla92]

Several. It doesn't help my situation.