Is it okay for you to be in love with a married person?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever been with a married person or is it okay for you?

[OneViewpoint]

My morality in this situation would depend on your situation and the situation of the guy you're interested in. The WHY of having an affair with a married person matters in my mind. It matters how mature the two people having an affair are. It matters if he has an open relationship or a hall pass from his spouse.

Some people are in an impossible situation and miserable. Divorce isn't a viable option. And an affair can bring some much needed relief and restoration of self worth. Or it can create a train wreck.

[Zack-Bann]

It’s not ok by any logical objective metric


But love is neither logical nor objective and certainly cannot be measured


So I would say it does make you a bad person but if the love is real then being a bad person is a fair price to pay


That being said: cheaters are despicable people
And if they cheated on someone with you
They can just as easily cheat on you later

[HollyK21]

I’ll wait to see if you respond to anyone else before sharing my thoughts on this.

[Sam1133]

Lol why?

[HollyK21]

Why not?

[Still-alive]

good approach. i approve lol

[HollyK21]

Honestly lol like why waste our time (usually giving an in-depth response on my part) just for them not to respond? No thanks.

[Anonymous]

Only if this person is on the verge of getting a divorce and separated.

[Gobbyjobby52]

It's okay to like or be attracted to someone who's married provided you don't express it, keep it to yourself and respects the persons boundaries and relationships. Love is a strong word and until you date a person and spend a long time with them the word love doesn't really hit the bar pole here.

[FunkyMonkee]

No, it's not okay but it's all I've ever had except for my 3rd girlfriend and now my present girlfriend. It was never intentional on my part. They just fell in love with me!

[FunkyMonkee]

I've never been able to figure out why married women want me but single women couldn't give a shit.

[Nikki1989]

You can love many people, married or not.

[jazzy34]

No. Plenty of single people out there. No need to disrupt a marriage.

[jahaims]

That's not love. That is lust, infatuation, and or limerence

[Sam1133]

Yes im in relationship with married women but its just a sexual relationship nothing serious

[DishLady]

What for?

[Anonymous]

Only if that person is my husband

[Staximus]

It is not okay

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope not at all, i fix families and not ruin them!

[In_Trance]

whatever works for you

[exitseven]

just my wife.

[Clyde_123]

No its not okay.

[zombiewoof]

Life happens